I am talking to a girl from India. We don't seem to have a good connection. When we talk there are long awkward silences. Absolutely no spontaneity. She wants to marry me out of her own free will (I work in a really good company in the US). I want to marry her too (She is good looking and smart). But I want someone who anticipates my calls and is eager to keep texting/calling with me. I asked her if her parents are forcing her and she said no. She told me she is lazy/easy going type who takes things easily. So, she is very casual about making calls to me. I gave up on her and finally texted her after a gap of 1 week. She seems more eager and is talking more now. If we decide to get married will the connection improve with time. I want someone who will miss me when I am not there and is affectionate and caring type. This girl seems to be super chill. I don't know if she doesn't like me but wants to marry me or it is just her personality. I keep reading about people having hours and hours of phone conversations before finally deciding to say yes and marry. Is that what I should be looking for?