Ivf/fet - Need Support

Hav faith in god. Do some meditation and pranayam. Visualization can also help. All d best for ur treatment. Dnt overthink about d outcome. Everything will be all right

 

I conceived my son through ivf.

Couple of clomid sessions.
Miscarriage
Couple of iui
Discontinued 1st ivf ( eggs don't grow properly)
2nd ivf failed
Then fet(from 2nd ivf)successful.

All took close to 3yrs.

I took lots of breaks for trips movies restaurants to maintain sanity.

Visited all temples n did all vratham anyone mentioned to me.

Never quit my job to be occupied and also save lot of money for multiple try.
(Took work from homes during ivf 2ww n all)

Don't keep thinking about it always. Let doctors take care of procedures just take care of saving money, relax your self, eat healthy food.

It will happen. Baby dust to you.

 

Hi Haritha,

Be calm and do not overthink about the outcome.
Pray to God..I hope this new year brings to you good news .
Stay positive and blessed.

 

Dear @Haritha123 ,

Hang in there ma . "this too shall pass". I have also been through that and experienced worst things.
Now my FET has succeeded to pregnancy. These may help you .
1) Be positively occupied. Read some books, hear to shlokas of God . I read books on Sai baba and trust me I felt less scared after reading that. I used to tell him you only have to take care further. Whatever outcome you give I will whole heatedly accept it. I am sure you will give me strength to to face the outcome. I never asked give me positive result. I said him if it's negative give me and family strength to face it.
2)go for walks to parks or in your apartment lobby. Talk to people a friend or your mother sister or husband anyone at least for 20 mins . Never be alone for too long.
3) during my TWW after FET I used to dedicate 30 mins in the morning and 30 mins in the evening to obsess about the outcome. In that 30 Mins I did all negative thinking ,googling symptoms, what next after failed cycle etc. I used to feel guilty but it's only 30 mins na dear so it's okay. After alarm rings for 30 I used to switch mind.
4)in between the day If I'm scared or anything I used to chant God's name. If I chant in mind I will lose focus n go back to negative thinking. So I used to chant loudly. Means through my mouth and not in mind. After sometime I realized those thoughts vanished unknowingly.
5)When I have felt extremely scared I have even let my thoughts come out. I used to be like "Yes what if it's negative, should that be end of world? What if my aged parents or in laws cannot see my child.? That is not my problem. Because I have done everything from my side to bring that child to this world . If still it didn't happen that is not my fault or problem right. " like this I have couple of times let me emotions come out. Trust me it makes us feel better.
6) After getting up n washing face I set alarm for 15 or 20 mins , I do om kara 5 times and 60-100 breathe in and breathe out slowly. Then I tell positive affirmations to myself . Like my body does not have problem , it is capable of taking this pregnancy , I will hold my healthy baby in my hand, I will do that, do this. Like everything related positive to pregnancy and baby. Positive affirmations. Whatever sentence u tell u should imagine that in mind. Or sit with your husband ask him to tell ,u sit or lie down and just do visualization. Trust me it is most effective thing to stay positive during this time .

In spite of all this still I have felt extremely emotional . Most importantly forgive yourself for whatever it is.

All the best and my prayers are with you .
Let me know if you try any of the above helped you.

Regards,
Anusha

 

Awesome. Also once you go to Kerala, when you get time start going through Bettina Rae you tube videos . She's a yoga teacher n has Yoga videos. But in addition to that she has a lot motivational talks for pregnancy. I learnt visualization technique from her videos. They are small less than 20 mins videos . You don't have to do yoga but her other videos are truly inspiring and daily I watch one video and get motivated .

We got this together dear. Don't give up. I can even help you in personal chat. If you need to talk to someone do ping me.

Take care .