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It Is In Our Hands To Make Our Life Peaceful And Enjoyable

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I agree

Lot of time people think, let me get away from negative environment, negative people

This is good

However, these same people still feel negative in different environment, with different people

Maybe the problem lies within the individual

We can only rely on God. Either he will help change us, and people around us, or if person is really bad (like a criminal), God will remove that toxic person.
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God brings us to this world for some purpose . Everyone has some positive and negative . It is difficult to be perfect. Lot of adjustment is necessary in life to lead a happy life. We need God's and elder's blessings for everything in life. I am blessed that I lead a happy life in old age because of God and elder's blessings. When you come up in life after struggling in the beginning then only you understand the value of life. I was taught to adjust in life , so I am following that in my life. I had the privilege of taking care of my mother, father and grandmother in their last days becauseof which I got ther blessings and they are always with me guiding me and showing the right path.

I also wonder about life. In my opinion I feel it is in our hands to make our married life peaceful and enjoyable. God makes the jodis , some are not happy with their better half and how much they try to change them it is difficult. If we are lucky and are able to adjust and forgive them for what we dont like in them then we can lead a peaceful life.

It is difficult to get a perfect partner but we can try to change them and if not possible we should change ourselves. In many things me and my husband are different but I have tried to adjust with him in the way he wants . He is very loving and caring though he is short tempered but that is only for a short time and he will forget about it as if nothing happened and once I asked him also why he gets angry sometimes for which he will say when I am angry how can I stop myself. I think you must have read my thread May be we are different from each other but we complete each other.

In present age in has become difficult for old age people to lead their life. The interest on investments have become less. So accordingly we have to live . My husband is very economic and spends only when it is very necessary. Thats why we are able to live a simple life .

If we have faith in God he will help us in need. I have had many experiences where God helped me .
If we have God and elder's blessings then our life will be peaceful and enjoyable. It is in our hands.
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Dear Viji Aunty,
Very nice to read your post..At times life does seem to be simple and we make things complicated at times because of ego clashes, selfishness, greed etc.. You are so blessed aunty to have a simple peaceful life.. am so happy for you.. As you mentioned, god's blesssings and that of elders must be there in life otherwise how much ever effort we put in, hurdles are bound to come our way some of which cannot even be overcome. Please do bless me aunty to get a peaceful and happy life like yours

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iyerviji said: ↑

God brings us to this world for some purpose . Everyone has some positive and negative . It is difficult to be perfect. Lot of adjustment is necessary in life to lead a happy life. We need God's and elder's blessings for everything in life. I am blessed that I lead a happy life in old age because of God and elder's blessings. When you come up in life after struggling in the beginning then only you understand the value of life. I was taught to adjust in life , so I am following that in my life. I had the privilege of taking care of my mother, father and grandmother in their last days becauseof which I got ther blessings and they are always with me guiding me and showing the right path.

I also wonder about life. In my opinion I feel it is in our hands to make our married life peaceful and enjoyable. God makes the jodis , some are not happy with their better half and how much they try to change them it is difficult. If we are lucky and are able to adjust and forgive them for what we dont like in them then we can lead a peaceful life.

It is difficult to get a perfect partner but we can try to change them and if not possible we should change ourselves. In many things me and my husband are different but I have tried to adjust with him in the way he wants . He is very loving and caring though he is short tempered but that is only for a short time and he will forget about it as if nothing happened and once I asked him also why he gets angry sometimes for which he will say when I am angry how can I stop myself. I think you must have read my thread May be we are different from each other but we complete each other.

In present age in has become difficult for old age people to lead their life. The interest on investments have become less. So accordingly we have to live . My husband is very economic and spends only when it is very necessary. Thats why we are able to live a simple life .

If we have faith in God he will help us in need. I have had many experiences where God helped me .
If we have God and elder's blessings then our life will be peaceful and enjoyable. It is in our hands.
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Nice write up Vijima !

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Glad you liked the post. God bless you dear with a peaceful life.

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Dear Viji Aunty,
Very nice to read your post..At times life does seem to be simple and we make things complicated at times because of ego clashes, selfishness, greed etc.. You are so blessed aunty to have a simple peaceful life.. am so happy for you.. As you mentioned, god's blesssings and that of elders must be there in life otherwise how much ever effort we put in, hurdles are bound to come our way some of which cannot even be overcome. Please do bless me aunty to get a peaceful and happy life like yours
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Nice write up Vijima !
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Thanks dear

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Glad you liked the post. God bless you dear with a peaceful life.
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Viji aunty, thank you so much Your blessings mean a lot to me

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Viji aunty, thank you so much Your blessings mean a lot to me
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Thanks dear for giving me so much importance to me

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iyerviji said: ↑

God brings us to this world for some purpose . Everyone has some positive and negative . It is difficult to be perfect. Lot of adjustment is necessary in life to lead a happy life. We need God's and elder's blessings for everything in life. I am blessed that I lead a happy life in old age because of God and elder's blessings. When you come up in life after struggling in the beginning then only you understand the value of life. I was taught to adjust in life , so I am following that in my life. I had the privilege of taking care of my mother, father and grandmother in their last days becauseof which I got ther blessings and they are always with me guiding me and showing the right path.

I also wonder about life. In my opinion I feel it is in our hands to make our married life peaceful and enjoyable. God makes the jodis , some are not happy with their better half and how much they try to change them it is difficult. If we are lucky and are able to adjust and forgive them for what we dont like in them then we can lead a peaceful life.

It is difficult to get a perfect partner but we can try to change them and if not possible we should change ourselves. In many things me and my husband are different but I have tried to adjust with him in the way he wants . He is very loving and caring though he is short tempered but that is only for a short time and he will forget about it as if nothing happened and once I asked him also why he gets angry sometimes for which he will say when I am angry how can I stop myself. I think you must have read my thread May be we are different from each other but we complete each other.

In present age in has become difficult for old age people to lead their life. The interest on investments have become less. So accordingly we have to live . My husband is very economic and spends only when it is very necessary. Thats why we are able to live a simple life .

If we have faith in God he will help us in need. I have had many experiences where God helped me .
If we have God and elder's blessings then our life will be peaceful and enjoyable. It is in our hands.
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Dear Viji Madam,
Very relevant to everyone.
Key to be peacefulness you have explained very well. Positive thoughts, simple life and faith in God, loving nature are the things in need. All these are in our hands and in our attitude to life.
Syamala

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Dear Viji Madam,
Very relevant to everyone.
Key to be peacefulness you have explained very well. Positive thoughts, simple life and faith in God, loving nature are the things in need. All these are in our hands and in our attitude to life.
Syamala
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Thanks Syamala,glad you liked the post and happy to receive your feedback

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Dear Viji,
If there is no compromise and complement between a couple life will be miserable. You are really great following the basic rues of life and leading a simple life.
You are right. We should try to make our life happy by adjustment.
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