My new neighbor is someone from the state and language I speak.I am the kind who keeps to myself and let relationships grow organically.. This neighbor has a daughter one year younger to mine. My other neighbor is asking me to go, get some Food and knock and get friendly. Is it mandatory? one other neighbor keeps nudging me to do that and irritates me when she keeps saying that the new neighbor is from the same language and state in India as mine and she is surprised that I didn’t go and say hi. I don’t understand this...I have other neighbors too.If my neighbor is an American or someone from different state, this was not expected.Now it is expected coz she is speaking the same language? When we meet naturally,it is not like am Going to walk way turning my face.I will be nice.I have tried being nice to one lady and it backfired badly.Personally..even I do not feel comfortable if someone knocks my door with food and says hi.They maybe friendly but I don’t want to be obligated to return favors and get friendly.I want relationships to go with the flow..