Is How People Are Now?

Amulet · May 25, 2019

@sbonigala
Your “may be” bullet list chant reads like a temple puja!

May be the poor things are making a huge EMI on their housing loan, they need people to invite and feed them.

If OP is curious, she ought to debrief their child. Home secrets are often revealed to all by children on play dates .

Mehana · May 25, 2019

magicwand007 said: ↑

I disagree with few people here who have said you should give her the benefit of doubt.
If she really had some problem or couldn’t invite you over to her place ,she would have atleast mentioned it or would have not sent her kids to your house So many times as she clearly cannot return the gesture.

OP, I think she is just a thoughtless person who just wants to make sure her kids are not bored but does not want to inconvenience herself by calling your kids for a play date.
I have seen that few people will spend a lot on themselves and their family but do not show even a penny to others.

Otherwise there is no reason why she can’t get a few extra biscuits when she can clearly afford a huge house.
If I were you I would stay away from her.you will definitely find good friends.you should not have to compromise just because you are an expat!!
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@magicwand007 yup I felt the same way. If she's more conscious about her comfort zone and don't want to give even a cracker she shouldn't take advantage of others.

During Playdate she says my kid is hungry ...I will ask her do you want to feed him(I already gave snacks) she says can you ask him if so I can feed him same what your kid eats(really oh man my kid is poor eater he's underweight and I have to feed him ). But in good hearted I will always ask her kid when they are at my home after giving my snacks.
I was so frustrated one day she said I didn't give him any food after his school but my kid wants to come to your house... also I didn't had anything either( initially she said and then it's become routine whenever they are at my home it's always snack time ). I was happy and thought we got someone here for better family get together and for my kid as well.

I was happy to be honest as I wasn't worrying much until she said one day to her kid give 1 cracker to my kid when I forgot to take snacks to the park. Also she doesn't have interest to let us know where they are moving to....

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