Infertility - social and family aspects

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by sonal, Oct 30, 2005.

  1. nalvk

    nalvk New IL'ite

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    Hi,

    i live in the bay area and am too suspected of pcos and went through two cycles of clomid & metformin.
    however i am still not able to conceive.
    It seems like the Infertility treatments such IVF/IUI are very expensive, does any one know if blueshield covers those? Will my gynacologists referral to Infertility specialist help me to be covered?

    i m desperate since i am going to be 33 years soon, it is affecting me a lot...


    Thanks.
     
  2. Ramyakaushik

    Ramyakaushik New IL'ite

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    Hello Vidhya ,

    Iam following you wherever you go. Iam also one among you all . I too have the same problem . For first two years our inlaws were quiet because we were only 22 and now its almost 4 years they started asking how long should we wait. Iam hoping God hears our prayers .

    I recites this slokam which might be useful for some as people said this has good results

    Kousalya ajanayath Ramam Sarvalakshana samyutham
    Vishnuhu Arthatham Mahabagam Puthram Eshvaku varthatham

    I heard this was recited by Kousalya when she prayed for the birth of a child and she was blessed with Rama...This is considered to be powerful slokam.

    I also tell Santhana Gopala slokam, Subramanya slokam, Garba rakshambika but yet to be blessed . Though my husband is very understanding I sometimes feel very bad when people around him give good news why not me.

    We also went to Dottamallur .
    Vidhya thanks for the slokam on krishna let me read that one and see . To all other friends let me also pray for you....

    I still believe in God


    Ramyakaushik




    Goodluck to all of us!

    regards
    Vidya[/quote]
     
  3. Smitha D

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    Hi Ramya,

    I think you would be able to help me as I have been searching around and asking for help From ILites regarding
    1 Santan gopal mantra
    ( OM SHREEM HREEM KLEEM GLOM
    DEVAKI SUT GOVIND VASUDEV JAGATPATE
    DEHIME TANAYAM KRISHNA
    TAVAMYAHAM SARANAM GATA)
    is this right
    2 Garba rakshambika mantra given behind the pic of the goddess with the ghee
    can't read it as is in tamil.

    God bless yeah dear
     
  4. Smitha D

    Smitha D New IL'ite

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    Hi Ilites,

    To all those ILites who have consumed the Ghee prasadam of Sri Garbarakshambika and got the benefit Please fell free to share your experience.

    Need help how do we start a new thread or a new post as I want to start a new post for the feedback and experience of those ILites who have prayed to a particular God/ chanted a particular mantra and got the benefit and concieved.As I find Ilites to search for a info and then they vanish sooner they get the info they don't write back as whether they got the benefit also.

    To all the brave ILites like me who are desperate to beget a child and em still in faith to God that One day Sun would rise and their wish would be fulfilled.
     
  5. Veena77

    Veena77 New IL'ite

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    hello everyone,
    We are married for 5 years and yet to conceive. After reading all the posts ,i just ordered online for ghee prasadam from
    Sri Garbharakshambikai temple,Thirukarugavur. I hope i will get the desired result .
    Just wondering if anyone happened to book any homams through the same site temple and temple puja at home puja online worship service times hindu worship servic.
    I would like to order for Santhanagopala homam and navagraha homam but not sure how well this is done. Has anyone tried ordering for a homam on this site. Just looking for some positive feedback.
    may Goddess fullfill everyone's desire to have a baby.
    Thanks,
    Veena
     
  6. pray2god

    pray2god Senior IL'ite

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    How to handle Nagging friends?

    I have friends & co-workers(all indians), who are in my same age group or slightly older to me.. Whenever I meet them they keep boasting abt how easily they got pregnant and how smooth their pregnancy is going....

    To begin with I am a paranoid person and worry for every small thing... as much as I try I am unable to forget all that they say and keep stressing abt it.. I know very well it is impeding my efforts to get pregnant but how I do handle it in a more mature manner.... One thing is very clear that since it is taking me sometime their comments r bothering me....

    I am tryng hard to change and ignore all that they say and lead my own life... How do I make that happen???? I am doing Yoga & meditation regularly but it aint helping bonk
     
  7. Sujimallige

    Sujimallige Bronze IL'ite

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    Re: How to handle Nagging friends?

    Dear pray2god,

    Do u have the option to get pm?? pls let me know.

    suji
     
  8. pray2god

    pray2god Senior IL'ite

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    Re: How to handle Nagging friends?

    Not sure. I think we shd have posted atleast 50+ msgs for that...
     
  9. Sujimallige

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    Re: How to handle Nagging friends?

    Hmmm...i wanted to share something with you,but dont want to write in the open forum.

    Pls dont think too much about other people and their pregnancy.I know how some people act but that will be their nature and you cant change them.
    Remember one thing if u take too much stress it will not be gud for u.
    Just dont care for anybody.Just think that u are the only person in the world and live.
    Read books,see comedy movies and spend loving time with your husband.

    Gud luck dear and hope things work out fine for you.

    suji
     
  10. Venonimiss

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    Re: How to handle Nagging friends?

    Dear P2G, I agree with Sujji. People can only bother you as long as you give importance to them. It is all in your mind of what you would be feeling.

    A point to Sujjimallige - You can PM pray2god with your email address and she can write back her personal email to that adress and you guys can be in touch.
    You may be knowing this point already, but ..just FYI

    If you don't want to share personal email IDs, you can create a dummy one to keep in touch with ILites. Thanks.
     

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