Infertility Rocks !!!!!

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by tweetyfan, Jul 7, 2010.

  1. enlightened

    enlightened Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Tweetyfan,
    I must confess that I just chanced upon your post as I rarely visit the forum.I found them very touching.In fact, your first poem made me cry.So many of us here who have kids , dont realise when we spank them or admonish them severely that what precious gifts they are from heaven above.Your posts made me retrospect on the loveliness of motherhood.God Bless.
    Deepa.
     
  2. tanoshii

    tanoshii Platinum IL'ite

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    Those poems really make me cry. We are TTC and things are still not on the positive note..and like you mentioned earlier, I too really need a break from all this...and yeah, the questions and inquiries just makes you want to avoid people and be by yourself ...

    someday the little angel will be home in my arms :thumbsup!!

    Hope the same for all you ladies too!!:):thumbsup
     
  3. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Deepa,

    Kids are really GOD's gift.Ya!.Motherhood is a lovely feeling.I hope we all get a chance one day.:bowdown
    Wishing you all the best to get +ve HPT.

    :cheers

    Dear Tanoshii,

    Taking a break from TTC has helped many to conceive naturally may be because of less stress.Hope it works for us.These poems are very close to my heart.
    Wishing you all the best to get +ve HPT.

    :cheers
     
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  4. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Celebrity couples that struggled with infertility and had Success

    Today #3 : Celine Dion Pregnant With Twins Via IVF & Exclaims “There Are No Accomplishments Bigger Than Motherhood!”


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    A rep for Celine Dion confirmed that she is pregnant with twins!
    Celine, 42, underwent her sixth in-vitro fertilization attempt, staying in New York City for a month and also undergoing acupuncture treatments — “and it worked!” the rep shared.
    Celine and manager husband Rene Angelil, 68, “are both extremely excited. But really, since this was the sixth time, they just want a healthy pregnancy,” the rep added.
    Celine is 14 weeks along, and will find out the gender of their babies next month. The babies are due in November. The babies will join big brother Rene-Charles, 9. Rene-Charles was also conceived by in vitro after six years of trying. Last year, Celine revealed to Oprah Winfrey that she had suffered a miscarriage after another IVF attempt. “We’re living the reality of the majority of couples who face these procreation techniques,” her husband told a French-Canadian newspaper in November.
    Celine had just recently spoke to Us Weekly, before learning of her pregnancy. “We are doing IVF and hoping for the best, ” Celine shared. “My greatest joy would be to announce I’m pregnant!”
    And even though she is only 14 weeks along, she feels like she has been pregnant for much longer.
    “I feel like I’ve been pregnant more than a year,” Celine shared with French paper Le Journal de Montreal.
    “I never gave up,” Celine said. “But I can tell you that it was physically and mentally exhausting.”
    Her husband added, “these treatments were truly hard on my wife’s body. It wasn’t simple at all.”
    Celine admitted that she was a nervous wreck as they waited for the pregnancy to hold. “My doctors had to constantly reassure me…Each week I had sonograms. I heard their heart beats.”
    And now, she’ll do whatever doctors tell her in order to keep her babies safe. “It’s stressful but I’m relaxing. I look at my little belly. I do almost nothing,” she said. “If you tell me I have to stay in bed, I will stay in bed until November, when the babies are born. To bring them into the world, there’s nothing more important than that. It’s incredible.”
    “There are no accomplishments bigger than” motherhood, she said. “The trophies and money, that doesn’t give meaning to live and that doesn’t give you true happiness…a baby — yes.”
    After learning of their baby joy Celine and her husband were ecstatic!
    “There truly great emotions after all our efforts,” she gushed.
    Best Wishes!
     
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  5. Sankna

    Sankna Bronze IL'ite

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    Hey tweety darling , you have done a good work and this is a beautiful collection of poems and real stories. I felt like reading my own feelings and emotions here...
     
  6. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Thank you Sankna,

    Iam daily searching for some successful stories through infertility and things which are close to my heart.It makes me to have hope,to keep faith,to believe.So i thought if share,it may help you all as well.:thumbsup
     
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  7. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Infertility Yoga's

    Shilpa Shetty's Yoga

    I have Shipa Shetty's simple yoga video.It's easy and it explains clearly.More over you can do 4 or 5 simple yogasana.They explaing also the benefits and also name of the asana.

    Here's the link

    SaiRam: Download Shilpa Shetty Teaching Yoga Video

    There are 3 parts.Decide which asana is simple for you.
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    Baba Ramdev -Yoga for Childless Couples (English)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cp09cn1B9J4&feature=channel

    He has given some useful remedies(medicine) for low sperm count,motility,weight control,depression,menstrual pain etc., and simple asanas for both men and women.

    Also it is always better if you once go to a yoga class and learn these in person.
     
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    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    A new day. Celine Dion

    “Where it was dark now there’s light
    Where there was pain now there’s joy
    Where there was weakness, I found my strength
    All in the eyes of a boy’ “
    A new day. Celine Dion

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VIQ3Mo2x9w
     
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    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Infertility: Deciding When Enough is Enough


    When you’re in the midst of infertility treatment, it’s easy to get a little lost.. Often, this is because trying “one more thing,” can easily outweigh the cost to your own well-being.

    The following questionnaire appeared in my Emotionally Speaking column in Conceive Magazine a couple of years back. The Yes/No Questionnaire is a good thing to have on hand and for you and your partner to take at regular intervals. It can help you step outside yourself and assess whether it’s time to take a break, or even put an end to treatment and consider alternatives.

    1. Do you often find yourself mentally and emotionally tired?
    2. Are you losing hope about the outcome of your medical treatment? Do you assume failure to guard yourself against disappointment?
    3. Does it seem as if your whole world has become about infertility and that little else matters?
    4. Do you find yourself irritable and resentful on the days when you have a doctor’s appointment? Are you resisting following medical instructions?
    5. Imagine that your doctor has just informed you that a new groundbreaking treatment has been discovered. Do you wish you didn’t know?
    6. Are you feeling resentful that you have had to give up other things to pursue treatment?
    7. Is there more tension, arguing, or just isolated silence between you and your partner? Has your relationship lost its energy and joy?
    8. Are your money reserves getting dangerously low, putting you at financial risk?
    9. Do you find yourself feeling desperate, pursuing treatment against medical recommendation, or willing to pursue pregnancy at any price?
    10. Is the idea of being a parent becoming more important to you than being pregnant?
    11. Does an end to the demands of treatment and a “return to normal” sound like a relief?
    12. Do you look in the mirror and find it hard to remember who you were before, or hard to recognize who you’ve become?

    If you find that you’ve answered ‘yes’ to a majority of these questions, it may be time for you to consider ending treatment and reassessing your goals. Even if you’ve only answered ‘yes’ to a few of the questions, you should see these responses as red flags signaling the need to take stock of where you are and strongly consider taking a break from treatment
     
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    It perfectly fits situation. I just hate to acknowledge how true is this .
     

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