Hi All I am married for 5 years now and since day 1 I had problems with my MIL and SIL. SIL was very interfering and both women kept DH in control. DH used to get carried away with MIL emotional drama and crocodile tears. I kind of ignored these problems assuming that I will never live with these women as DH lived in US. But things turned different. Six months later after I moved to USA, DH called SIL in USA and enrolled her for master's by paying whopping fees. This was followed by PIL. All these things came to me like shock one after other. As I was not earning I had no option other than tolerating all the issues. My PIL and SIL treated me like a maid. I had no say in anything. MIL and SIL were the ones who will take day to day decisions. I didn't resist for any of their decisions and waited PIL go back to India. MIL and SIL made my life hell. My child was an infant that time and my first priority. PIL expected me to do all the household tasks and treated SIL like a princess. MIL tried to provoke me and tried to behave in such a way that I would initiate a fight. But I didn't fight at all as I was also worried about my safety. Whenever I used to get frustrated, I would just leave home and go out for sometime either at friend's place or shopping. MIL used to torture me saying that whether friend is boy or girl. MIL and SIL together did slut shaming about me. They also do this in front of DH and DH has no say in it. With this kind of marriage, I first tried to become independent and sought a job. Slowly things started changing. SIL went back to India after I gave DH an ultimatum. FIL used to call my father like a support center if I don't do household activities. Expecting that my father will troubleshoot all the issues and will ask me to be PIL's maid. I stopped talking to PIL and SIL as these things have hurted me to the core. DH even being aware of everything still expects me to talk to them. We are visiting India and PIL are worried because if I am not talking. They will not be able to spend much time with their grandkids. I try to convince myself to let go things and have a new start, but the past memories just keep haunting. Need your opinion.