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In need of some advice on my married life

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by SMILEYFACE, Dec 18, 2011.

  1. amunique

    amunique Gold IL'ite

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    Dear... a few questions for u...

    did u ask him abt d money matter politely or in a demanding way?--- men are by birth egoistic n if it happens like ur gonna hurt his ego then their reaction would be like this only since he has a lot of responsibilities.. n he is d only earning member of the family.u can talk to him as a friend.. be a good friend to him first and earn his soft corner..

    secondly.. just be independent ... take up a job if u can... n save money for the kid u have and for urself... n dont tell him abt this... when this amounts to a decent sum... show him.. this will prove tht ur very much dedicated to ur family(u ur DH n ur kid) let him know this...

    and this isnt a big problem.. so dont take decisions based on this...

    n most important.. keep urself busy always.. with something.... so tht u wont be thinking of unnecessary things...

    take care..
     
  2. SMILEYFACE

    SMILEYFACE New IL'ite

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    Thanks all for the wonderful suggestions and advices. Coming to the fighting part, mistake is there from my side also. Whenevr I am angry, the tone changes and the way I speak would be demanding, I agree. As Amunique said, it might have hurt his feelings. Thanks anyway for the suggestions. I will see to it that I will not bring inlaws subject unnecessarily into our life.
     
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