Hi, I am new to this site and went thru some of the threads on married life and felt that I can also post my story here. I came to USA from India with my kid after resigning my well paid job to join my husband. It has been almost 5 yrs since we married and it was not that a happy one. We usually fight a lot. I had a hard time with my in-laws as MIL is a problem creating one and all the time he had supported his relatives. So whenever we fight past is brought up both will be started cursing the opposite side relatives. Now my prob is he hit me when i questioned him abt a money (a few lakhs)transfer he did to his brother without telling me a word(he never tells me any financial details..) which i however found out. He is telling I cannot qustion him abt money matters..All this yrs even though we fight a lot, eventually i loved him so much, and used to take initiative to make peace. But hitting me made me think otherwise. Should I go back to India and start working or should I stay back here? When he hit me I told him that I would call the cops if he do it again. But I cannot do that..I dont want to put him in trouble. All these yrs I kept to myself without spending much money thinking that he will b saving that for the kid. Now i feel that i should only work to save for my kid. What will I do if he resort to physical abuse again if some fight happens between us? I dont want to lose my kid his father that is why I am trying to suffer His indifference to me. He is very reserved type. Not interested in physical relationship also these days..I wanted to have a second kid but he is not showing much interest. I dont know how I am going to save my marriage..