Hi to all my IL frens, Now a days I am getting a little worried for my son.He was pre-term baby and now he is around 14 months old.A little on the lower side but still very cute and a beautiful kid. Evryone in my Il family keeps saying Oh he is so small,thin etc..Now me n my H are also not very tall SO obviously the kid will take after his parents.But when they speak like that,I feel very bad.Sometimes I cry also. This time wehn I went to my in-laws house these are trhe comments I heard from them. MIL:Very tiny,not good. FIL:He is not fat unlike my elder grand child(born after 5 years to my BIL and is very dark but a full tem kid.One year elder to my son) SIL:He is so thin.You put on so may clothes to him.Give him something to eat. BIL: He looks fat in the video.Give him chocolate.This will make him fat.He is not speaking at all.My son started speaking when he was only 1.This is TRUE.He started so speaking early so thats not my problem.(I wanted to scratch his face that time) Co-sis:My son is the best.He is very sharp. H:When I complain he says all mean good and we argue over this.Forcing my son to eat chocolate(I have already warned him against that). The problem is my doc is very happy with my son's growth but these people dont seem to understand.I feel very bad and have cried sometime.I want to hide my son from these people's eyes.I wish all these people just suffer for making my heart bleed by their comments.And all this comes inspite of them knowing that I feel very very bad about this. ladies please help me here.