If You Don't Obey Me..leave The House..am Jus Fed Up

I feel like I am similarly wondering if I should just get up and leave. I totally understand that you feel like your decisions will affect your children's education and future. But I will share a secret, you're relationship as it is now, will also affect your children's future relationships. Parents are the greatest role models for a child, so if you feel like what is happening to your or your husband in this marriage is bad, it will imprint them with that behavior or the thinking that it's acceptable to see that in others. You have control over your thoughts and actions. If you can bring yourself to peace and impart with them [your children], good habit and ways to deal with people, you are really making a big difference in their lives.

Its a good thing that your husband and you are living in 2 different cities. Don't let him affect your mood from the distance. At least he's not here to make it worse.