Move back with him. All you need is someone constantly beside you. When u dont get the attention, mind is so crazy, that it tries to shift its attention to any fleeting happiness. You sure can find a career around his place. First prioritiy in happy married life is STAYING beside each other and sharing sunrise and sunset together.
Boys term this as BITCHING...... More or less this incident looks like an extract from a **** story. I hope this is just a fictious imaginative incident.
People have already said good points.... If this incident is true and if you have a true caring loving husband, there is very less possibility of a married girl falling for another guy. SO, i kindly advise you to resign ur job IMMEDIATELY at the earliest and get along with ur husband. This is the biggest problem that couples who travel abroad face today. Having travelled / worked in US, Canada and UK, i have never seen married couples of non-indian origin living at different places and work for financial needs. Obviously it is just factuation and u need ur husbands care pshycologically and physically - daily seeing him - having food with him geather - holding hands with him - going out for shopping togeather. This is absolutely necessary in the first few years of ones marriage. This stupid indian couples (even if they are newly married) they tend to stay away and work for financial needs. Absolute stupidity. My best advise, please resign and get along with ur hubby as soon as possible. If you are a techie, Stop using face book. CHange ur mobile number and every possible contacts thru which u may be reached.
QUIT the JOB and go to the place where your husband is living. Your married life is more imp. than this nasty job (specially when you are involved with a coworker). If you stay away in a diff. city eventually you may come back to your senses.
My husband is moving here in couple of months... Man this feeling is so hard to get rid off... I am such a stupid person, i am trying to avoid this guy many times but he pops out from somewhere.. Whenever we r together i have completely stopped caring for him , doing stuff for him.. I am so shocked for this guy who doesn't even care for me.. Though i have stopped doing everything for him , he is still normal.. Actually i have so much hatred for him,,, after doing so much he doesn't even care that i have stopped showin care for him.. Oh well i am glad this happened at least i know how he is .. U know i its me ,,, i was so wrong and i was getting myself into dirt... This guy is not wrong i am the wrong one...
luc...after marriage, hubby and wife shouldn't be away from each other...make sure u join ur hubby quickly...the felling of being alone has dragged you into getting attached with a another guy..u may spend hours of time chatting with your hubby..its no way near to staying together.. make sure u get emotionally free and mind set is changed before joining ur hubby...concentrate more on you and ur hubby...things will change.. just forget about the past... good luck
Why are u so concerned about his feeling?? Its YOU only who decided to care for him and again its YOU trying to put a fullstop...Right?? So why are u thinking abt him??He is normal or sad (coz u have stopped caring him), nothing should bother u.. I can see u r still thinking about him, earlier u were thinking of doing some special for him and now u r thinking not to do anything but disturbed abt his reaction!!! Dont think so much....Just ignore him and go to ur Husband to save ur marriage... regards Priya
@puspita I agree with you completely I am really pissed of by all the comments that LUC has posted here. All this is because of fast moving generation. This is the reason few men are degrading the status of women in today's society. These type of incidents will make men strong and they force MARRIED women to stay behind the doors in house. Married women will not have the freedom to work in the future if this continues. Women have lot of respect in our COUNTRY. People like LUC will definitely spoil this. Getting attracted is common but moving a head and fantasizing about that guy is the biggest crime. Sometimes she says she is trying to change and later she brings the topic of that guy in one or other form. She will never change and cannot change. I am aware that LUC will not change. Congrats LUC you made my belief true. I kindly request you people to stop posting on this thread. If we dont post any this thread will go down. Else MOD please delete this thread. Innocent women who are having hard times with husband's can walk through this path. When other ladies are not aware of this path they are good. But if something come to their mind after reading this , they keep thinking on it. MOD as an eldest person you should take care that youngest one should not see this angle in married life. I am out i will not read or post any more in this thread. Bye
Hi, If I have to be honest with you then I have to be rude. This guy for whomever you are falling is going to dump you the moment he finds someone else and believe me he will. See, you can not ditch your husband, b'cos that is not you and you dnt like hurting him. And you can not stop this guy from marrying someone else. Face the fact and return to your husband. Leave the job and move to your husband's place. Within no time you will forget all about the other guy. You will feel better about yourself. Dnt disgust yourself, and dnt expect things to happen the way it happends in movies. You seem to be a good person, just little weak at heart. You like being liked and you need lot of love and attention. As your husband is away, you are seeing for all those in this other guy. Take charge of your heart and move to your husband's place. Make an excuse if you have to for moving..... Sorry if I hurt your feelings. Mads