I don't know what to do, but feeling really miserable now. My trouble with my in laws started since marriage. They even went up to abort my baby when I was pregnant for the first time. They tried to separate us, and made my H marry someone of their choice and what not. Due to their interference and cultural/religious differences we always had issues in our marriage, and at some point we were at the edge of separation too. So much have happened in the first 5 years of our marriage, but something in us/something in our love kept us going. Since we were inseparable, our PILs changed their targets and by that time it was my co-sis and BIL who became their prime target. During that time, I had my second kid, and that was a girl. MIL was fond of girl kids, and my DD bonded so well with MIL. Since then, our relationship has gotten better and in laws have become an important part of our lives. Though there were misunderstandings (obviously religious and cultural), we handled them maturely and moved on in life. I forgave all the past disturbances, and started genuinely welcomed them to our home in the coming years. Its been just over a decade since we are married. Everything goes well in life but with so much hurdles. Specially my H has lost his real self, lost his self confidence, lost his career, and he has changed so much from a lively modern youth to a very dull, negative, depressed middle aged man. I too had so many disturbance in the name of illness, and kid's sudden illness etc that affected my career and peace of mind. But we grew close with God, and always prayed for our better life. During this, a famous pastor from India visited our place for family blessing and he sensed some evil spirit in our home. The team prayed over in the coming days and found it was a witchcraft dug in our land. They eventually removed it, and asked us continue to pray. It all happened like a cyclone in our life, that we witnessed the witchcraft in naked eyes when it was removed and it all seemed real. According to the pastor, the evil doer was a blood relative, other than that he refused to comment. But we did not have any blood relatives who had enmity against us back then. (or at least we didn't think much about others). So, we concluded it must have been our PILs, and started staying away from them. The pastor strictly asked us not to fight back with anyone, or not even to tell others about this removal. But take life as it is, and let everything to God. But my H - out of furious, rushed to his parents' place and scolded them for this evil matter. Though they swear that they were innocents, they did not take any initiatives to convince us. Later we heard they went on to pray to Goddest Durga (Kali) to punish the real culprit asap. Later that month, my H suddenly told me that someone (I still don't know who, but he tries to convince me) directed him to a Hindu priest and the priest told the actual culprit was my SIL (Brother's wife) and some other people. According to the priest my In laws may have connections with the team, but they are not the direct culprits. I thought my H is lying to save his parents or he may be bluffed by PILs to speak like this. We waited, and trusted that God will show us the culprit. In the mean time our marital life blossomed. My H got a better job within one month and regained all his lost happiness with that. Since PILs interference were NIL, we did not have any issues in our marriage in this 1 year. Eventually, we forgot everything and moved on with life. Still we don't talk to PILs, and the relationship has ended there. Within 1 month after the removal, my brother got admitted in a hospital for an unexpected sudden sickness and later recovered after a surgery. Soon after he and SIL had marital issues, and that went on for so many months. Once it was almost over, their 5 year DD got diagnosed with Leukemia and it has shattered the entire family. Whereas, my PILs grew good. BIL got a child recently after 6 years of childlessness. MIL and PIL are doing OK despite of their old age. When connecting the dots, we get a complete different picture about everything. We are unable to leave them as coincidence now. My bro is angry that it was my PILs who had done BM to his family, because it was him who stood by my side when things were sour with PILs. Besides, he trusts the same, because the pastor had asked us not to talk about BM removal to anyone, as the culprits could sense it and redo it. Since my H revealed it to his folks, my bro doubts. My H seriously doubts SIL (bro's wife). She and her parents already had a huge doubt about my bonding with my bro. They suspected my bro would share all his wealth to me. Specially they were worried about my marital problems, and bothered what if I had to separate from my H, what if my H continue to stay jobless etc... hence openly fought with us to stay away from bro. Though I am financially independent, and earn as much as my bro, those village people weighed us based on my H alone. Besides, this is what the Hindu priest revealed. And according to him Goddest Durga has shown the culprit more than once. But I don't understand this. If it was SIL or her parents, then why would my innocent Bro and his innocent child have to suffer. Both my in laws and my bro's in laws (including SIL) are from a rural part, where BM and stuff are common. They have close connection with certain Indian cities and priests who are involved in doing and removing BMs. Our family is rather modern, and lived in a metro since many years have no clue. But when things go beyond our hands, we are very much carried away too. We are seeing a pastor (not sure how capable he is) next week and see whether he could give an answer to the puzzle. The older pastor has returned to India, and can not be reachable. Even if the no answer is given, we will live with this problem all along. What can we do?