To be honest, I am not fan of my husband. He has many issues and our relationship is not very good. After kid, we are apart and no common grounds. We have our own enjoyment methods, we sleep separate and he watches tab/tv separately and I live on my own. He is okay and helps in household kitchen work. To worsen, he is almost taking control on what to cook, how to cook, what /how to pack for others and I hate him. Nothing that I do he appreciates or likes. That is his attitude but thats okay. Problem is how he deals with my daughter. We go together in car. He always plays some news/music which has some unacceptable words for a 2 yr old to listen. If not, he will play TV for her and she gets addicted. At home, weekends/weekdays, morning he gets up, kid asks something (anything) , immediately TV turns on... You want cartoons ..ok lets watch cartoons. Aftertoons, evenings. ..every time. Then when it is over an hour for her in front of TV, I have to interfere stop. He does not bother she gets too close to TV and I become bad mom again. He does not bother sound/brightness or what is coming on TV. He watches TV full day on weekends and she too. He does not bother she needs to go out, its warm outside, she can be taken to park and needs company. She watches TV with him. Because of his TV habits, she likes him and literally sends me away. Then, he speaks all those bad words in front of her ( to her while talking to her) and just won't stop. In a day about 20 times, he will say, sh_t, po..y,..and all those in local languages (those abuses in local native lang). Earlier I tried to stop him, then fight. I realized I hurt his mouse ego but he increased using words because on rebellion. Once twice, my LO picked up those words and started using.. specifically sh_t and 1 more word. And once we were in car, she said in front of him. He was shocked and then kind of controlled those momentarily. Then again , by nature, started and intensified. I had cut down on my nagging but sometimes it will be too much for me to hear and he gets furious. Everything like dirty tissue or if my LO creates some mess, even for food, he will say - This is p-tty, (you do repeatedly)... eat p. blah blah..then he will also speak same in native which makes it worse on ears. I feel bad that now my daughter has started reacting to our fights and she gets scared. I am already under lot of stress for numerous reasons and he won't stop. I want him to go somewhere for couple days but he has no company which is why he had no civic sense. I am thinking to go to India for sometime for same reasons. But I have already decided not to have another kid. We live in small apartment and have to see each other all the time. Its not like he watches or does what ever he wants in an isolated room. Whatever he does, affects my daughter. Here I have stopped doing anything, any makeup so my daughter does not copy me. I do not go to gym or any time away because she will suffer. Him taking care of her, she will watch tv all the time. And he tells me, I am incapable of taking care of her and ignore her all the time. What about him glued to TV and ignoring her sitting next to TV screen burning her eyes. For everything thing, he will start shouting. Last night, in front of guests, I was putting more rice for him in his plate and also added curry w/o asking him thinking he might need curry too with extra rice. He started shouting. I felt so crying in front of them. Today, my LO cried that she does not want to wear brown shoes but pink. So he is telling okay, your brown shoes are p_tty, lets throw them in p_tty... lets flush them...repeatedly he used and uses p word, very casually. I stopped him and there was big drama. Sorry for the big rant ..but I am sick of this man.