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Hi ,

I am not sure how i can help you with this issue...But i would like to tell my case so that you can stop stressing yourself a lot...If you have read my post in Fertility forum, you will know that i don't even know my LMP and came to know i was pregnant at about 22w3d......That too from the scan and the measurements....From then on only the scan is the measuring factor for my due date and baby's growth...And we had 2 detailed complete anomalies scan checks one in South Africa(in 2nd trim) and another in India (in early 3rd trim) and everything came out as normal as per report...... .And we are going only by the baby's growth and as of now i am going to complete 33 weeks...

Nobody can predict the conception time exactly...That is what my doctor and fetal specialist told me....We can only say it could have happened at this time, but you never know..They told me why do you want to look for trouble, when there is none.....I would say the same thing....If possible contact your old doctor and get the clarifications....But stop worrying so much now that you are into early 3rd trim and ur stress can affect the baby....

Take it easy and handle this and don't worry too much about all these dates....Any anomalies or issues would have come out in the 2nd trim scans.....Just relax and enjoy the pregnancy...
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Thank you so much Aish for the reply... Yeah, I read about the miracle in ur case.. I am sooo happy for u... I wish and pray that u give birth to a healthy baby... Take care of urself...

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Hi inlovewithmylyf

congrats on ur pregnancy and hope u have a safe delivery. In my case with my DD, I was too in US at that time. According to my LMP my due date was 1st of Jan, but right after teh first sono at eight weeks, they said that baby was looking small and that the eight week sono is pretty accurate in terms of size...so they concluded that I must have ovulated late and they adjusted the due date to 14th of Jan. However, my DD was born on the 3rd of Jan and at that time the doc who comes in to check the baby said that the baby was 40 weeks, ie, on time..she said that by looking at the nails and some other factors..and that my earlier date of 1st Jan was the perfect one....So my 2cents for u is do not worry unnecessarily as long as the baby n ur doing fine and ur not having any health problems.
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Superwoman, thanks for the reply... I am a bit relaxed after reading ur reply... ... Hope all goes well with me and my baby...

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hi INLOVe

looks like you ar ein lot of confusion .as I told earlier the first US is the most aquarate .The Baby's growth largely depends on your body type and hormone levels.No body can predict the actual conception date as the fertilization can occur between 30 mins to even 48 hours after IC .The bleeding that you might have had on jul 13 th and Jul 23rd might be the remnants of the past ecotoptic and Its possible to get the HPT within 1 week ( i got mine positive 5 days before my AF and that month I had a late ovulation and I know for sure my likely conception date ( the gap was mere 5 days ) ) Every woman has different HCG levels so yours and mine might a little over thats why we had lot of nausea and vomitting so don't worry .Usually when there is less than 7 days difference between US and the LMP they go by LMP and according to you your LMP was June 23 then go by that .don't bother what the midwife says or doctor says .Go by your maternal instincts .These are juts numbers don't worry .Hope your Nausea and Vomitting has subsided
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Lochu, thanks for the reply dear... My nausea and vomitting has not stopped completely but I am feeling better than before... How are u and ur LO doing??

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I had an appt with the MW on the 2nd of February... Finally she said tht my DD is April 16th only... She said that June 23 cannot be taken as my LMP because that was not the last day of my periods, that was the day my surgery was done and the bleeding that I had that day and two days after that was the bleeding from the surgery and not natural... So, she took my LMP as July 11... I am a bit relaxed now...

Thank u all once again my dear friends...

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Great to see a response after so much confusion..
Dont worry about anything and enjoy this duration.. Once the baby is out there is no time to rest..

PS: on a lighter side, think of TR and pray u should get a chubby cutey baby like karadi (ofcourse with less hair than him and more cute features )

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Congrats on your pregnancy!
Due date changes from first ultra sound to second ultra sound going further based on baby's growth. Nobody can give exact time when the due date is, its only prediction. Like others said, just be prepared once you are 36 weeks pregnant. In my case, for my second baby...doc told me I will be delivering a baby about 6lbs but I ended up giving birth close to 10lbs baby
So, don't stress yourself and tell the midwife this what it is , if need more details she can always contact with previous doc. She might be asking too many questions to make sure which is the exact due date as doctor's also need to be prepared for it regarding their appointments with out patients and schedules at hospitals.

Good Luck!

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inlovewithmylyf said: ↑

Lochu, thanks for the reply dear... My nausea and vomitting has not stopped completely but I am feeling better than before... How are u and ur LO doing??
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Glad your Doubts got cleared Inlove .Take care and be prepared from 36 weeks .I am doing fine and my scan is on feb 15 th .MY nausea is also getting better but not gone completely .Hope you have help from India before 36 weeks

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Ranchu said: ↑

Great to see a response after so much confusion..
Dont worry about anything and enjoy this duration.. Once the baby is out there is no time to rest..

PS: on a lighter side, think of TR and pray u should get a chubby cutey baby like karadi (ofcourse with less hair than him and more cute features )
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Ranchu, thanks dear... ... My God, no I will never pray for a baby like TR... ... N u know well tht TR is unique... No one can be like him...

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Rakhii

Congrats on your pregnancy!
Due date changes from first ultra sound to second ultra sound going further based on baby's growth. Nobody can give exact time when the due date is, its only prediction. Like others said, just be prepared once you are 36 weeks pregnant. In my case, for my second baby...doc told me I will be delivering a baby about 6lbs but I ended up giving birth close to 10lbs baby
So, don't stress yourself and tell the midwife this what it is , if need more details she can always contact with previous doc. She might be asking too many questions to make sure which is the exact due date as doctor's also need to be prepared for it regarding their appointments with out patients and schedules at hospitals.

Good Luck!
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Just20, thanks a lot for ur reply... BTW, this is not Rakhii... This is Inlove... ... Rakhii has already given birth to a baby girl 7 weeks back... ...

Ya, I am not going to be bothered about the due date, I will just be prepared for the delivery anytime after 36 weeks... MW has received all my details from the previous doctor... Ya what u said could be the reason why she is asking too many questions...

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Glad your Doubts got cleared Inlove .Take care and be prepared from 36 weeks .I am doing fine and my scan is on feb 15 th .MY nausea is also getting better but not gone completely .Hope you have help from India before 36 weeks
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Thank you Lochu... Ya, I will be prepared for the delivery anytime after 36 weeks... Oh, so Feb 15th you will get to know the gender of the baby??

My parents will be here tonight... Excited about that...

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