I am pregnant but dont want baby

SR09...u took the words right out of my heart.......I am here married for 11 years to my wonderful husband and I can't have a baby.........I have given up.

LIFE IS BLOODY HELL NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Whatsoever reason maybe you need to talk to your Gyn about your situation and decide on terminating the pregnancy. I don't know about conceiving second time after abortion. You need both the specialists discuss and advise you. It is not something that you want you get it and when you don't you can wash it off.

Anyways when you deliver you will be 28. 28 is neither early nor late for pregnancy.

 

This is JMO.

Please have the baby when God gives it.He might change His mood later.

Iam with you Jaya & SR :cheers

 

Hi,

I really cant digest how people are simply thinking to abort a life. It s totally depending on you. See we have sex for our needs. If you relly dont want a baby then you should have used some precautions before you have sexual relationship. It is not genuine after you get pregnant. Don't think am interfering in your personal things.. I cant even think the words you say. Please don't abort a little peanut. :bowdown

God has given such a responsible position to you.Take care of the little pearl. Please dont try to get rid of it.As you steted, your health problems are nothing in front of a bundle of joy inside you. I don;t know why your relatives also encouraging you. Please take a positive decision. It s a life. It wont affect your enjoyment or health (whatever it may be ) in any way. Take care of your little plum..

Cheers,
Chitra

 

Very Very True

I can understand how you feel, same here too.

Thanks RG :cheers...to you too.. (so namba case? god ku innum mood varalai ya?):rant

KDK- my appologies for deviating the original subject matter.

 

Jayu,
Dont give up. Hang in there.

 

kdk,
While it is your choice, future problems are not predictable. So, think very very carefully before you decide to terminate.

 

Dear Kdk,

I have a friend who had the same experience as of urs. She was 27 when she got married & on the day she completed her first month of marriage her pregnancy was confirmed. She too wanted to take a second opinion & went to a cousin who is a gynec. As per his advice she continued her pregnancy & now her healthy baby boy is 1½yr old. She resumed her career after 4 months of delivery as her both mother & MIL in turns took care of her son.

And my another friend aborted her pregnancy 2 times by taking some tablets given by her Gynec & then after 2 yrs she planned her pregnancy & had a baby boy.

So both things happen & it's up to U as it's a decision of ur personal life & ofcourse u have respect ur family's opinion also. So think again & again before taking any decision.

I must say that kids are the wonderful gifts from God. Myself had to wait 7 yrs to have this little budle of Joy. And it's really very bad to face the world when U R childless.

Best Of Luck.

 

Dear kdk,

Even I have had neuro problems. It is true that once you are pregnant, you cannot treat urslf for eye surgeries / tooth surgeries etc.

I had planned a LASIK to correct my power earlier in 2010 and had done a bridge operation for my tooth in March. But before I could continue, with the root canal procedure, I discovered I was pregnant.

My dentist said, we cannot do anything till you are 7 months as sedatives are not good. I suffered with sensitive tooth and sleepless nights along with nausea and vomiting. Couldnt take pain killers also. Just used to keep lavangam on the affected tooth and cry.

But later my dentist gave s-flo solution, which is a mouthwash. After using it sensitivity has reduced, though there is pain now and then.

But I am very very very glad I chose my baby over these eye and tooth operations, dear. Cos, I am in my 9th month now and every time my baby moves, I am soooo delighted! There were more times when I cried with joy and happiness in the last 6 months and dint regret it at all....

Just go for it I say. u can correct your neuro problems next year this time also....