Dear Ladies, How are you all? Life update... I forgive my husband for lying to me multiple number of times for going to Thailand without informing me. Anyhow i came out from that depression and started a life with him. Still after all this he has not changed a bit, as a husband he is very loving, caring, good father etc. But every 5 to 6 months he want to go with his friends out of country. Last time we were in India and he went locally somewhere with his friends, which i didn't mind much. Recently he went another country for 4 days. First he told me that travel is with friends, later they cancelled their trip. But he has one of his old friend in that country, so he decided to go alone to enjoy and meet his friend. Until the last day i kept on asking him, did he inform his friend about his visit, answer was yes! After reaching, he is telling me that his friend is out of country for some emergency. I felt really bad. All this 4 days he was alone in hotel room and did site seeing all alone. I sense something wrong because every night from 10 pm to 2 pm his phone used to be not reachable or switch off. Many of my friends warned me about the place illegal issues.. such as ladies availability etc. I was also having public holidays during these days. Also i suggested him that I can come with you with my son. We can enjoy together. (also i am broad minded to go for parties, drinking & smoking) so he don't have to bother on that part. Still he paid deaf hear to my suggestions. Now he is back and i don't feel like talking to him. If feeling depressed. Every time i start forgetting everything and come back to life. He leave me along go for this type of trips again and again. Sometimes i feel, i m overreacting. Do i need counselling?