I am not good in writing nicely. But like to share thoughts. Today I read a thread that said we become happy and sad for no reason. Yes, I also have same experience. Then I thought further, about our complete personalities . Personalities are also happy or unahppy, for no reason I think. Some people have happy faces ( I always think of Actress Khushboo, such a sweet, open happy face) and some, having everything also, look like ghosts. I am generally happy. I find small small things in life that make me happy. I am middle class housewife, many things I don't have. But what I have makes me happy. Is that wrong ? Because , one relative told me too much contentment will stop all progress. Meaning, if I am happy with what I have, my husband will not have motivate to earn more it seems. I dont know about that. And she also says, if I dont ask him for this and that, he will stop giving attention and take me granted it seems. Another thing, I have no great ambitions. Life is going ok on whole, I am ok with it. I don't really want a bungalow on seaside or go to foreign trips. When I see others making plans and goals, I get scared like : whats wrong with me ? Even my husband says, if all people are like you, world will come to stop.:bonk Yes, I have interests. But they pass. If it happens, well and good. Does not happen , ok forget it. Some people in the family say I am dull and like vegetable. But I try to be dynamic and change the world type. Yes, I feel sad for poor beggars and street children , i get angry with rotten politicians, but coming inside house, I become happy , playing with my son, doing some handwork. I read many books by philosophers and all. They all say, our inner self are made from Anandam.( happiness). I dont know if my general happiness is same as that inner happiness. But I am happy that I am happy. But people think I am strange, even if generally all people keep advising " Dont Worry Be Happy". Tell me , is it wrong to be happy ? Or am I some crack ?