Amica, thank you for highlighting this unnecessary hassling that OP has to face. Advice for the problem posted can be shared without inquiring whether problem is hers or not. For the record, based on her many threads, OP has two children who are around 2 and 6 yrs old. I know because I have posted in them. Closer reading of the 7 months old post will tell what she is talking about. If one wants to look up an OP's older posts, at least do so thoroughly. Forum Etiquette "Male members are allowed, but we ask that you conduct with an extremely high level of professionalism and courtesy. Writers and/or subject matter experts who are male are happily welcomed. But, we don't look too kindly on men who join just to hang around here making frivolous posts. This is not a male-community. Male members aren't allowed to post their pictures in profile or avatars. Male members who participate in relationship or pregnancy forums should add value to the conversation with thoughtful male point of view. Participating to do chit-chat messages is not encouraged." Who is now (why) not posting in which chatter thread, who posted what 7 months ago, do not really meet the above criteria.