Husband not interested in making love after 2nd child

Well, I guess. Like Women, men also go through different stages in life.

So flexiblity in desire is normal and again it depends on his business and work pressure and stress level. Honestly, stress will kill the desire.

Thankfully, all problems have different but final solution.

Cheers

 

Hi this is sameer from madipakkam,anyways answering to ur Q
1) No. u tell me are all female are so unhappy the way u r after 35 years? plz dont generalise this.
2) hmm some problem, have better communication with him.(ask him the same Q, as he is the only 1 who can ans it properly)
3) same here..i also dont understand how incensitive he is..he got married to u..he need to look after everything and not only office.
4) ask him. but i feel its the impact of office life on him
5) may be may be not.
6) of course not. Its natural.
7) why monthly u can do it regularly as sex is the art of making love, conveying unspoken feelings..
i would suggest to do all of this..b expressive try to understand his views as well..try to get into the same emotional level first..rest of the things will automatically happen...if he still not able to understand u....then i guess he is the one of them who doesnt understand someones emotions and incensitive chap. he has not right to engage with sm1 and then treat her like this.

 

During this age because of hormonal imbalance thiks kind of missbalance will happen

we have to handle this carefully. I believe he may stick with any on-line virtual or reading some kind of stories and comments etc., just monitor and change yourself and try to involve with him and share ( walk on his path ) he will turn to you.

also don't shout or show angry face to him and to your kids this is not the good way to divert or approach him.

talk with him freely share comments and just be happy.

good luck

 

Is 35 years really middle age???

 

Ha ha Good one

Something about this post is fishy

 

Old thread. Not sure why this was given a new lease of life by Rukumaniqa and Mr.Sameer

 

Yes 35 is approaching middle age ,a 35 year old man/woman cannot be as frisky as a 25 year one !
Maybe the age difference between the couple is having its effect.

 

well have a frank talk to him and if he does not listen to you, take the help of elders in your family whom you trust or a marrriage counseller

 

some suggestions or advices from man's point of view:

1)Are all male like this after 35 years?
no, this isn't the case

2) From starting of our love, i was fat, then why he is highlighting it now?
maybe you are not taking care of yourself or maybe he lost interest in you.

3)All my tension,shoutings 75% because of unsatisfied sex.Why he is not
understanding this?
true

4)I feel, He is escaping from me not avoiding me.Why?
yes, he is.

5)Is his physical disability the reason for this?
No, wrong direction

6)Is y sexual wish wrongthing?
No

7)Monthly once sex with compulsion is right?
No, sex is fun

 

Hi,
There is nothing to worry. tell ur hubby to exercise daily. tread mill and moderate weight lifting. daily overall 1 hr exercise. it really trims unnecessary fat and increases libido. It urges me to have sex with wife daily. some days she doesnt cooperate . I am 36.
regards
vinodh