Hello frens, I am a member of this site and I regularly observe this forum for years. I have also posted my queries when i was single and now I am married to my love :thumbsup. Me and my DH married last April and all is well so far. We had a great courtship period of 8 years,and now i want ur suggestions for the problem I am facing now. We both decided to have a baby an year later of our wedding. But now my DH is not interested to have a baby as he wants some more time. The reason is,he is into business and his career is at a beginning stage. We have couple of loans and we both manage them as I m also working in IT. We do have financial constraints but we tend to manage it. My DH says it would be difficult for us to have a baby now. It would take years for him to settle down but I dont want to wait. we are of the same age (26) and I want to have a baby asap. My DH is scared of medical expenses and always says he doesnt want to take risk. He wants me to wait for another 2 years. I am nt ok wit ths decision of his. I agree with his point but not totally.we have been having fights for the past week and I dont know what to decide. Frens pl suggest a solution.