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TWO ways to be happy in life –Never take help of TEARS TO SHOW YOUR EMOTIONS andNever take help of WORDS TO SHOW YOUR ANGER.

Feelings are the most delicate things in life, never hurt them when any one truly shows to you, because a great saying says..
Today it’s Me. Tomorrow it’s you… !!

When someone hurts it is very difficult to control our feelings. Noone likes their mistakes to be pointed out. When someone appreciates we feel very happy but when someone hurts by pointing out our mistakes we feel very sad. In this world are all not the same. Each one of us are different , even the siblings in the family are so different from each other . Some dont know what they say when they are angry and let out their feelings and dont keep anything in their heart , in on eway it is good but they dont understand how much th eother person is hurt. It spoils the relationship too. Once we get a bad impression about someone then it is difficult to erase that from our mind.

Thats why the saying goes

Words plus eggs should be handled with care
for words once spoken and eggs once broken
are the hardest things to repair

The things we say in anger can be said without getting angry too. Getting angry and shouting spoils are health too, our blood pressure might increase. Usually those who are very calm and get angry rarely show their anger more when they get angry once in a while. In this world some people give importance to only money.

So often we regret for small small things in life and
overlook to acknowledge the things which we have.
Let us acknowledge the grace within us and
Be grateful for the infinite good things which we possess.

iyerviji, Dec 29, 2015

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Viji ma how come you get to bring up lot of truth always. Very nice snippet ma. I will post my comments later ma. Have lot to type.

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sreeram said: ↑

Viji ma how come you get to bring up lot of truth always. Very nice snippet ma. I will post my comments later ma. Have lot to type.
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Glad you liked my snippet and how come I have to say you always appreciate my snippets. I will be more happy if I get more responses and others valuable feedbacks. Waiting to read your comments. Thanks dear for making my day with your first feedback

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Mami,

thanks a lot..
So true of whatever you have told..
If we follow that would be really great as well..

Happy New Year to you and your family.

Take Care,
Vaidehi

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Hi vijimaami,
nice snippet. So true. Words spoken in anger can have a very long term effect, in that, it is never forgotten. But we are all prone to it at sometime or the other. Good to always bear in mind!

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Dear @iyerviji Sister,

A simple and great message full of wisdom.

The saying goes as," The arrow that left the bow, The words that left the mouth, and the time that is gone could not be retrieved".

Yes,we should control our emotions and not let them control us.

I wish a healthy and Happy New Year 2016 to you and your DH.

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A cute little vitamin post dear Vitamin aunty.... A nice point to remember before losing words that lead to hurting others knowingly or unintentionally.
Thank you

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u r right viji garu this is secret of living .

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@vaidehi71, Vaidehi dear glad to know you liked my post. Happy New Year to you and your family too and thanks for your good wishes

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@joylokhi dear glad you liked the snippet. True Joy dear once we say something in anger cant be forgotten for a long time. So better to control our anger. Wish you and your family a Happy New Year

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