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Hubby always busy with his male friends on weekends :what to do?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Amarpreetkochar, Aug 18, 2009.

  1. Amarpreetkochar

    Amarpreetkochar Junior IL'ite

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    Hi,

    My hubby is always busy:rant with his male friends on weekends:going out for movies, night clubs etc. How do I make him spend weekends with me?

    Regards,
    Amarpreet:)
     
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  2. Priya16

    Priya16 IL Hall of Fame

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    Does he out four weeks in a month or one time in a month?
    Does he ask your permission before plan anything or he just say bye to you before leave?
     
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    Tridev Silver IL'ite

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    You cannot make him spend weekends with you, you cannot CHANGE Him. Please remember this, it is HE who has to change, you can only gently tell him or remind him that what he is doing or he should spend time with you, but at the end of the day its his call to act, your reaction to that would be totally under your control. if he still does not change , you change because we can change ourself.

     
  4. tuliplady

    tuliplady Gold IL'ite

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    I am guessing he doesnt take you to nightclubs etc...

    Why dont you suggest that you want to go to nightclub/movies with him?
    You have to come up with a plan (considering his likes) and then suggest him the same. If he likes nightclubs, plan going out to one with him. Dress your best and show him that even you can enjoy!!:thumbsup

    My dh rarely plans, but what if i suggest he tags along...! he likes playing tennis and i have never played..so one day I went and bought a racket and suggestd we should play..he has appreciated it a lot..although i am bad at it.he still teaches me:)

    be a sport and enjoy with him (provided its reasonable)
     
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    spap Senior IL'ite

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    Are these male friends married too? If they are, then why don't you suggest that you can go out along with other families? Just a thought..
     

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