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How To Unlove?

Discussion in 'Poetry' started by Anjelin, Aug 9, 2019.

  1. Anjelin

    Anjelin Gold IL'ite

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    Started as a casual meet
    Between two strangers in a street.
    Relationship soon blossomed
    As in love both of them bloomed.

    Built their own paradise
    With love and everything nice
    They looked so good together
    No doubt - Made for each other.

    Love, joy and warmth
    Spread their fragrance all around
    Among families, friends and kids
    that was growing like branches and roots

    Slowly some differences grew
    Distrust said time to bid adieu
    Hurt, anger and disrespect said
    Separation was the only clue

    Cannot be together
    Need to separate.
    But how do we unlove One
    With memories entangled in so many?
     
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  2. Tamrakshar

    Tamrakshar Gold IL'ite

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    Anjelin, do you know what? Ego is the worst enemy of love. Sacrifice your egos. Life will be beautiful.:sunglasses:
     
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    Thanks for your comment. Agree with you. But some troubles might not be due to ego. I was referring to infidelity over here.
     
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    :hello:Whole world is trying to teach love and here you desire to be taught to unloved. apostles of all religion emphasise love love love one and all. What your take on this?
    Thanks and regards.
     
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    To unlove is not easy. Love creates itself. Makes us happy , fill our heart with all time desire for any kind of contact with the person. A very sweet feeling which we enjoy and just flow with it.

    But to unlove it's a forceful act. One has to stop those desires to meet or hear from that person forcefully and has to push it towards the other acts of life. It makes us stronger and if we do not dig too much into it we can still find happiness in life.
     
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    @angelin very difficult to unlove when your heart is filled with memories.Nicely expressed your thoughts
     
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    HAP HAP happy birthday India Bharat Matha key Jai
     
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    Dear op such a Nice poem. very true to love there are million ways but unlove there is no easy way !!

    I think only way is to separate and walk in two direction to the extend, never meet each other again!! But again it's no easy !! Especially when we are tangled with kids, families,friends... Etc.

    There should be a hidden world to run over and restart again.
     
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    Sandyr46 Finest Post Winner

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    Life is all about 'moving on'. When you confront infidelity a few months will be about the lovely memories u shared, hate realizing that while u were dedicated the other person was slyly cheatin on you. Confronting and getting a closure will again take u down memory lane. But then accepting, letting go and forgiving will set u free. Give it 6 months to 1 year and you will not feel the pain nymore.
     
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