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How To Shut Up Mean Mils ?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by KayaCholan, Feb 15, 2019.

  1. DDream

    DDream Platinum IL'ite

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    May be we are not that kind of persons. Its not applicable to all. But chances are high. If not all these MIL issues would not have been there as these MILs faced the same when they were DIL. In many cases (DIL or any) victim becomes the abuser. Its a proven fact in many families. Recently also I came across that kind of news. For example those who are abused in childhood can become child abusers. So I believe all the abusers have a history as victim of abuse at some point in their life.Exceptions are there I agree.
     
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    very true.research done in usa proved that children coming from broken homes end up being school bully
     
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    There are MILs who would make mountain out of mole when told directly, and if any action taken liek putting the lock for example. Sidhi ungli se ghee nikalanewale (DIL here) ke kapade hamensha kharab hote hai...

    you can not judge DIL when she does things to make her situation better.... it is a reflection of what DIL has gone through in the hand of MIL/PILS
     
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  4. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan Finest Post Winner

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    :hello:If unreasonable shouts to be arrested then homeo seems to be a good idea. Tell or request your friends to constantly make missed calls to her number and your number. This could serve as an instant remedy.
    Secon method is use your audio make it play. If kids are around higher decibel should come handy but mind neighbou or there about.
    God bless.
    God is in music as therapeutic.
     
  5. Thyagarajan

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    :hello: A lovely phrase. I shall commit to memory.
    2. Rest of your message is very apt inputand enrich theyhread keep it up
    Thanks and Regards.
    God is invisible like ghee in raw milk unadulterated not enriched with detergent and urea ( Indian milk)
     
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