@SGBV Ma'am we all young women have to learn from you.. I am really pleased by the way you are handling things.. OP I understand you might have problems delegating tasks but you will have to before you end up in a hospital (touch wood). And sorry the point that the kids are always with me stood out.. They are your own kids don't feel bad for them spending time always with you..because imagine if your parents would have told that about you how bad would you have felt?? If you are overwhelmed then let them stay at your parents or join them in some classes.. And treat your studies as your meditation time..it was your choice to continue studying so it means you like doing it..so study with happiness in your mind.. Take a step back and see the positive you have managed all these so many days..now you know the in and out of it so streamline the process.. and sometimes don't go to see the 5rs that you would spend..if you feel guilty giving all the clothes give 25% of clothes then you get that extra 1 min out of the 5 min job..image 1 min everyday that means 7mins in a week and 30mins in a month for ME time.. See the positive!!! And one more thing many people are good at somethings some maybe fast at cooking..some in cleaning..some laundry!! Just find yours and become a expert and reduce time there.. Always remember the tasks that you have been doing didn't kill you yet so it means you are doing something right!! Its okay to feel overwhelmed but don't give up..