How to keep your secrets once married?

keep these in ur house and say ur parents not to open them that something personal.Better to trust parents I guess

 

Please burn your diary and stop writng it.. if needed you can maintain a ediary with password

 

pls keep secret whatever YOU FEEL SENSITIVE...LIFE IS IMPORTANT...THAN YOUR DIARY...IF YOU FEEL THOSE PAGES WILL CREATE A BAD IMPRESSION ON YOU IN THE SENSE PLEASE....DISCARD IT...CREATING A GOOD IMPRESSION IN YOUR FAMILY IS MOST IMPORTANT FOR A HAPPY AND RESPECTFUL LIFE...

 

have a suitcase separetly hidden in ur cupboard with a lock and key in-between ur clothes

 

I do not see a problem in openly sharing your diet and other plans such as homeopathy remedies. Tell them frankly that how and how long you are planning to do this, and what is to be done, and what is not to be done accordingly. This won't create any misunderstanding between you folks in the future.
Eg: When you say a strict NO to your MIL's surgery sweet plainly bcz of your diet, but she takes it differently and keep grudges over it. You can avoid such unwanted situations by being open and honest with them.

I know elders won't care much on diet and stuff specially for young ones, so you can bring exaggerate this by adding a doctor's advice in this. That will have more volume than your own diet plan

As for diary.. I think it is risky...
I won't trust that every one will remain decent, and hence wont touch the other person's personal things without permission. You know, we are living with humans, so mistakes do happen. If someone by mistakenly happen to read your diary and reveal the secretive info to your hubby or in laws, the same can sometimes back fire against you with proof.
It is not safe, specially not at all safe for a new bride.

Until and unless the understanding and bond become strong between you guys, it is better to keep them (diary, letters etc...) in a safer place other than your in laws home.

 

That you can keep it in your own personal cupboard -safely locked and the key remains with you. Everyone basically know the cupboard is to keep your cloths and books, but I am sure there is a place for you to keep these sex stuff too.
Do not hide anything in common cupboards...

I always had problems when it comes to throwing the used condoms... I tried flashing it in the attached toilet, but had a hard time making it disappear since the material kept on coming back even after several attempts of flashing - Giving hints to others, who happen to use our toilet.
Could not throw it to the dust bin as well, as there was barely nothing in that bin in our bathroom. So if I feared what if my MIL/MOM sees it when they try to empty the trash bins.

 

How depressing that in our culture, a married woman does not have the right to a bit of privacy even in the comfort of her own home.

I understand that it's inevitable, that there will always be a nosy parker or busybody in the form of a family member or neighbour, but having to hide ones precious and intimate belongings from all of the family even in our marital home takes things a bit too far.

:-(