Need help friends! I have struggled a lot in married life and now somehow after lots of adjustments from my side I have found peace in my marriage but there is one major factor in my life which is still a big question mark - my career. I was a stay at home mom (for almost 2 yrs)and somehow managed to get a job in US. The problem is that being a hi-tech job which requires lots of work and effort I was not able to manage it. I had to quit. My husband thinks I was not able to hold a job but he does not want to adjust his lifestyle in any way. He is not ready to make any sacrifices because he always blames for not managing properly. I used to wake up at 5 (cook for us, for DD daycare stuff, wake her up and get her ready). Even after all this, when I want to leave early to office and ask hubsand to take her to daycare later on, he would not agree). I adjusted a lot since I wanted to somehow keep at the job but he will say angirly - "ok, you go sit there in office only, forget everything at home). I felt so bad. My concern now is I need to spend time at work atleast in the initial days at my NEXT job. I dont want to make the same mistake as in my last job. Leaving this job because I was not able to put in more effort has killed my confidence. I was always good at my work and have never been in this kind of situation before. He, on the other hand, keeps on hinting that I run away from challenges. But how do I get him to be more serious abt my work as well and let me follow my dreams. Another thing is, he will always SAY he will support me but when it comes to reality he will have so many excuses. He will do only when it is convenient for him. But my job and my office does not work according to his schedule. How to make him understand and help me on a daily basis so I can go to work. PS: He thinks he is an encouraging husband who LETS wife to follow her career(in his own words). But it is upto me to make it a reality. Thats not possible. I am human too. I dont have any help since we are in the US.I noticed this change in him that once i started working he would hint a bit at how much money he is making(he makes double of what i make) so we have to focus on his work more. But job is job, right? because i am getting paid less doesnt mean I dont give in my 110%. Hw to make him understand?