OP, Longer screen time may be the reason why your daughter in not persuing her other interests. Cut down internet on her phone, make sure she has phone only to mak and receive calls. completely restrict her using Ipad and laptop. Keep those things out of her reach. If she had check to internet for project purpose, your unlock and physically hand over to her. TV time minimise to 1 to 1.5 hr a day, let her watch her favorite programs. Boredom may make her introspect her interests. You can figure out then what she wants to do at her sparetime. Doctors and psychiatrist advise to cut down screen time as max as possible for mental health, esp to young people. I am also struggling to bring self discipline in my son, like keeping thing at place or changing uniform after reaching home. unles i tell him he wont do it. my family members say he is only 11 will learn as he grow up. Regarding help doing Hh chores, i follow this one. Try this one if you find ok. constant appreciation. Whenever he helps me at home, i remember to say a thank you, i wudn't hav finished this work so quickly without ur help. I make sure i tell my husband, see he helped me to complete this work. This trick worked to pull him into sevice. Hope this helps.