Hi, It's been 8 months since I got married. My in-laws are good people sometimes but too dominating and controlling always. They are not a bit satisfied with me and my family. My in-laws demanded 5lakh in hand, and jewels as per our wish. My husband seem a good person and I got married in a grant ceremony beyond my parents capacity. But my in-laws never satisfied at all, saying they didn't demand dowry only bcos they wanted a good family and good girl. They demanded and got money and now after marriage they think that 5 lakh is very small amount and it doesn't count as dowry. I'm kinda thin. So they making me eat too oily, fried food to make me fat, saying my parents never took care of me well. Like they made me starve at home. My husband thinks Im living life better than my home here in this new family which is wrong. I wear modern cloths before marriage, we informed that to my in-laws and husband. And also my parents informed that I'm not fond of wearing jewels. Everything informed clearly before marriage to them. When they came and see me for the first time to confirm the marriage proposal. I was only wearing a simple chudi, free hair, a very small thin chain, a earring stud, and a big dial watch. Thats me. I dont want to put a show off by wearing jewel and saree that day. And also my parents inform them that I have only wore saree twice before marriage and not much interested in it. My husband liked the simple me and said "Yes". I also liked him. The marriage got fixed and we got married in 2 months. But after marriage everything got changed. My in-laws wanted me to wear silk saree whereever I go, and my MIL tells me what dress to wear everytime I out with my husband. Also she insisted me wearing jewels all time. I didnt like my MIL interfering in my personal and took it to my husband. But he never took my side and asked me to do whatever she says. My husband had no problem in me wearing jean for first month of marriage, until my FIL told us not to wear jean. Since then he never let me wear jean and I fight with him asking why he listens to his father, instead of listening to my needs. My FIL doesnt like girls wearing big dial watch, so my husband never let me wear it. Instead he takes the blame on him and says he doesnt like me wearing it. MY MIL doesnt like to doing free hair. I always maintain short hair since my childhood. Now my in-laws doesnt want to do haircut. On the day of my engagement my MIL made my SIL and her cousins to change my hairstyle without my consent since they didnt like it. My husband taking their side and pretending he likes what his parents like I had a footwear in different color strap which my FIL didnt like. He asked me not to wear that too many times. Since my husband didnt listen to him. I wore that with no problem. It was a present from my bro before marriage. One fine day my FIL cut the slipper strap with a knife or blade or whatever. He wakes up early morning and he did that disgusting thing before anyone sees it. As usual I got ready for office on one friday and found the slipper strap was cut off, which is not possible at all since its a new footwear and a good one. It wont tear off that easily. Morning when I wore a different slipper, my FIL saw my feet to check what Im wearing. I have got no proof to defend my side. By I got extremely hurt by what he did. They dont appreciate anything my parents buy me. from fruits to very expensive stuff. Bcos of them, me and my husband fighting quite often and there is no peace between us anymore. Whenever I bring anything about his parents to him, he blackmails and threaten me by asking a divorce I cant say these things to my parents cos my mom is a sick person. Im extremely depressed and emotionally tortured by my husband nowadays often. He calls me a sick and mad person. He makes me cry and watch it with no compassion. He says Im crying for nothing. There is no use in explaining things to my husband, since he is not understanding. How can I change this situation at home?