Hi, My in-laws are good people sometimes but too dominating and controlling always. They are not a bit satisfied with me and my family. My husband seem a good person and I got married in a grant ceremony beyond my parents capacity. But my in-laws never satisfied at all, saying they didn't demand dowry only bcos they wanted a good family and good girl. I wear modern cloths before marriage, we informed that to my in-laws and husband. And also my parents informed that I'm not fond of wearing jewels. Everything informed clearly before marriage to them. When they came and see me for the first time to confirm the marriage proposal. I was only wearing a simple chudi, free hair, a very small thin chain, a earring stud, and a big dial watch. Thats me. I dont want to put a show off by wearing jewel and saree that day. And also my parents inform them that I have only wore saree twice before marriage and not much interested in it. My husband liked the simple me and said "Yes". I also liked him. The marriage got fixed and we got married in 2 months. But after marriage everything got changed. My in-laws wanted me to wear silk saree whereever I go, and my MIL tells me what dress to wear everytime I out with my husband. Also she insisted me wearing jewels all time. I didnt like my MIL interfering in my personal and took it to my husband. But he never took my side and asked me to do whatever she says. MY MIL doesnt like to doing free hair. I always maintain short hair since my childhood. Now my in-laws doesnt want to do haircut. They dont appreciate anything my parents buy me. from fruits to very expensive stuff. Bcos of them, me and my husband fighting quite often and there is no peace between us anymore. Whenever I bring anything about his parents to him, he blackmails and threaten me by asking a divorce I cant say these things to my parents cos my mom is a sick person. Im extremely depressed and emotionally tortured by my husband nowadays often. He calls me a sick and mad person. He makes me cry and watch it with no compassion. He says Im crying for nothing. There is no use in explaining things to my husband, since he is not understanding. How can I change this situation at home?