Hi ladies, Im working women recently married. My in laws are behaving good so far. My MIL used to cook for each day without any complain and my FIL took good care of me. Its normal family. Until marriage, I keep my salary myself ... my parents never asked my salary. They gave me freedom to do whatever i want to do with it. I never wasted money for unwanted things. I saved money and bought jewels for my marriage. Im so independent and value money most importantly I very well know invest my money in good way. It changed upside down when my FIL asked my salary. I dont expect it. It was a shock for me. For family expenses, they have money then Why they are asking mine. I know what you people... It happens in most of the house right? but it different for me because i brought up in such way. Both our families are middle class. But parent home is bit different. I made up my mind what is the big deal in giving my salary after all this is also my family. I kept some part of money myself for saving and gave remaining salary. First they said Going to invest my salary in chit fund(1 L chit). Even after two months, they didnt put chit or gold chit. I wanted to know what they are doing with my money?? If they are not going to do anything with my salary then it is better to be in my bank account. Atleast i get some money as interest. How to ask them politely about my money? beacuse they are so nice to me i dont want to hurt them. Once my MIL said we will save ur & my son's salary to buy plot or new house. Why to keep the money in house locker when we are not going to use it? Atleast can buy gold jewels or coins in my money ?? just keeping it in locker is useful? Don't know why my FIL want to rule the family when his son s in early 30s ... they are treating him as a child. Ok I dont bother about it now(future worries). My MIL buying jewels for herself but when i ask my husband to buy jewel in my salary he s keeping mum or saying any excuse. My doubt started here... why they are hesitating to buy from my money??? Last month he gave less the amount of salary than other months and he said I paid phone bill(One bill for all 3 of us (post paid family plan) ). My FIL said I wont pay for phone bill ...give the remaining salary... Whaaat ???? he s indirectly asking me pay the phone bill. my husband also gives his whole salary to his father. My FIL daily give some money for his day to day expenses. So he dont have money pay the bill. I'm the one who keep some money for saving & give remaining salary to them. So he s asking me to pay... Please suggest me some way how to deal with this matter.. I dont want to hurt them also i dont want to lose my money. May be my doubt about my inlaws may be wrong. I just to know it. Thanks.