Many of you might know about my previous problem abt lack of intimacy in our relationship. After a lot of struggle we are able to live a somewhat normal married life. Now again devil in paradise...my ILs are coming to stay with us for quite some some. The thing is even if our house is a big one and my ILs have a separate room for them...MIL doesn't want to give us privacy. She will come and sleep with us every night for sometime and then only go to her room. Even after H comes from office she will come behind us to the room and be with us when we want to talk something in private & will say "hope you don't mind". H doesn't mind her coming n spending time before we sleep...I find it really awkward :bonk This time I have decided I will not let this happen. But really dont know how to convey this to her ( I mean how foolish can an elderly lady be)...literally racking my head on this. I want to convey clearly but not getting how to. Please help me on how do I deal with this??? I will delete this post after a while for safety reasons...please bear with me. Thanks!