Dear ILs How do we communicate the dark side of ILs without hurting DH sentiments ? DH is generally very sensible till some sort of an interference by ILs. He too, like any other person, likes his parents . But his parents belong to the category who cannot simply see us have a cordial relationship. They constantly keep nagging about everything we do, which DH doesn't like either. Most of the times we end up having some issues with this and I feel I have lost my peace of mind. There are certain things that are very delicate which DH assumes to be OK if I don't talk about, but if I do talk, it can lead to arguments. How do I touch upon these without creating a rift?