"I often find myself obsessing over minutiae, worrying about trivial aspects of life that are out of my control. In my pursuit of perfection, I find myself losing perspective of what matters most, of the substance of life." - Yes, that's my problem, I am wasting time over what should not be bothering me. How should I stop bothering and worrying? How do I recognize my priorities? How do I live a selfless and purposeful life?