hello IL’s... hope you all are doing well. I was a bit confused and concerned about a family gathering. Let me give you a brief history. I have a 2 year old daughter.. having extremely mean, manipulative, liar mil and mommas boy brother in law and and spineless husband who actually himself can not tolerate his family but always hides behind me and made me culprit. My sister-in-law’s of 3 years was so much in joyousy with me .. she used to complain about me to relatives and she always taunted me whenever we talked over phone.. when my daughter born, my in laws came and her and mils dianamics changes, she started supporting me during my postpartum period now she delivered a baby and me , my husband and daughter are visited her place for 2 weeks.as I said my mil is a mean lady .. in front of everyone she shows like she favors sil and actually she does certain things for her which she never does for me . But in reality she is doing the same thing as she does with me. Spoiling our relationship with her sons. sil is in very vulnerable situation.. no husband support.. bil is a perfect mommas boy, newborn up for whole night crying she carry her with a c section.. still mil complains about her to bil.. lots of drama... now my point is ... though sil was never good to me .. said endless things about me to people.. taunted me and my then 1 year daughter... she had to come for my delivery due to mil and she made me listen to her favor, very jolous and egotistic still I am feeling bad for her ... whatever she is going through is not good .. we were chatting when she told me these things and I said to her to ignore what mil said and did and focus on baby and told my experiences as well ... I know very well she is not trustworthy.. I used to tell her things what I wanted to pass to mil ... during my postpartum when I needed to have my husband around me they used to play cards.. as a lady she could have ask him to take care of me .. she didn’t .. she used to ask him to take her to movie ... what should I do now when I am going there... when she was new in the family she ganged up with mil and spread many things about me. When she could not get along with mil she tried to sided with me when I delivered my baby but I played safe then. Now again when she is getting same treatment from mil she is trying to open up with me and telling everything.. even 1 month back that same sil boosting something about her just to make me listen.. how should I behave... I am going there for 2 weeks ... none of them mil or sil did any good for my relationship.. mil spoiled with my husband and she tried to spoil my reputation in relatives. Please advise.