Hello ILites, My regards to the amazing and learned ladies of IL. I have been a member of IL for sometime now but I haven't been much active thanks to my hectic schedule. But there are some things on my mind which I would like to share with you and also would like to know your views. First I was having this weekend chit chat with mom and she told me how one of her friend's daughter got married last year in January and now she is back to home because her H is GAY:bowdown and he hide the fact before marriage because of his ill mother. His mom died a few months back so he sent her to her parents home. I just want to know why people are such liars and hypocrites in our society? Or has the society made them like that? and above all, How gay friendly are we? eg., would you let your kid/relative have the freedom to be how he is and would you be friendly with them? Please really ask yourselves and post honest answers. I will post my second thought in a separate post. Looking forward to your replies.