My inlaws came to usa after a break as we had differences before and my husband cut short their visit as they are interfering last time.And he asked them not to interefere. my mil is not happy as her visit is cut short now. I am working so I am out for 9+ hours. she is a kitchen freak and already took over it saying she is here only few months and after that its all mine. but now she is interfering with feeding too. I normally take care of my son in the morning and evening. he is 3 years old. shes doesnt like him being behind me or preferring me. I told her politely but made it clear that I will take care of him when I am home and she is going to feed him wen I am at work Also since their visit is cut short she doesnt like my parents to come and be with me Iam pissed with that controlling bossing around attitude. Do you all give into your mil wishes or make your own rules. Also when they pull our parents how do you react.