Note: Private message is made a Paid Service. Only those who take Paid Private Message access will be able to use this feature. Refer this announcement about Paid Private Message System. Private message is a great way to communicate with fellow ladies. Here is how you can send a private message. Option #1 Click on the member’s name (which appears on the message - just as "induslady" above). A menu will open up. Click on “Send a private message to .. ” Write your message subject under “Title:” Write your full message under “Message:” Click “Submit Message” You are done! Option #2 Click on "Private Messages" link that is below your username on the top right of the page Click on "Send New Message" link on the left (listed under the "Private Messages" category Type the recipient name in the "Recipient Username(s)" box. Write your message subject under “Title:” Write your full message under “Message:” Click “Submit Message” You are done!