Honestly he drives me insane. We are having a really tough time in our marriage and I feel very upset. I understand he does not care about me. He works 6 days a week and has to send money to india. He hardly has any time for me. He doesnt ask me about my day or anything yet I take an interest in him. I have been contemplating divorce a few times but then look at my 2 year old daughter. I have lost all confidence in this marriage and have lost the person I once was. Whenever I ask a question he answers by putting it on me. So I've asked him Do you love me? He says 'YOU dont love me'. I asked him are you happy being with me. He said 'are you?' I asked him to answer my question and he said you answer first so I just said 'yeah' and then said are you? he says 'hmmm yeah'. What does he mean and why is answering like that? He has fought with me every year on my birthday since he has arrived in the UK. He is ungrateful...Ive lost all hope.