Hello mom's, We were in the birthday party(only few people were invited). It's a small group. My 3 year old kid was playing with another one around same age. Other family joined the party, they had a kid 7 years old. We all started eating my kid called me from other room(kids were playing there) when I went inside I was shocked. The older one(7 years old) let my kid stay outside the room and shut the room door with other kids. I asked my kid to knock the door and ask them , when he knocked the elder one was keep laughing. Then I knocked the door and askedaske can my little one join as well. The elder spoiled other 2 kids(around 3 years) telling NO. My little was so upset and I told my kid it's ok you can play by yourself. But my little one was so sad and wanted leave the birthday party. Then I finished my food and left the party. Only one mom came by and talked to her kid but other family who had that elder one didn't care they were telling that's what the kids do and enjoying their food. Since it's a birthday party I don't want to make a big picture and left with smile face. But I couldn't sleep well as I felt I failed to talk to other kids in good way so that they should underdtand this is not good behavior. Please post your inputs so next time I can handle in better way.