I like to have a clean space not perfect but decently clean atleast.. Dh is always busy My kid..I cajoled,appreciates,encourage Do what not! Some days help but other days throws things everywhere..I even tried giving some prize money for a good job but nothing works.. Am getting tired also.There r days where I quit my appointments which I made for a spa,my gym,hobbies I like just to sit and clean. I seriously envy some women who seem to have it all!my friend who is a full time working mother of two kids has a spotless house anytime I even drop in abruptly!!! It makes me feel worse that I am not doing this well.I work very hard,try but house seems messy. Where does one go wrong?