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  1. BHARGHAVI

    BHARGHAVI Senior IL'ite

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    hi frnds i was having chat with some stranger and went in deep and i wasfeeling some thing light in my heart so i was chatting with him 2 days so i felt that am i doing wrong r bad without knowing to my hus sharing r speaking with himso wht shall i do nw can i continue with him????????????

    as i told u before i was sharing something which i was not able to share with my family r close frnds so pls help me with this suitation he is aslo married and had a kid of 4yrs
     
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    SSC Platinum IL'ite

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    :bang [​IMG]


    Please refer to this thread, for extensive discussions on the same:


    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/159015-possible-love-2-people-same.html
     
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  3. bhuvnidhi

    bhuvnidhi IL Hall of Fame

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    Bharghavi , You know that what you are doing is wrong and you already have a guilt trip.Just stop it at once.Do not allow some fake pleasure to take over your real one.
     
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    BHARGHAVI Senior IL'ite

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    hi ssc u r true i saw the thread which u sent me
    i agree with it it is just a crush but something i cant understand why i get so scatterd with in 2days hw can i change myself
    and finally thnks for ur suggestion
     
  5. BHARGHAVI

    BHARGHAVI Senior IL'ite

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    ya u r true fake pleasure doesnt come along
     
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    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    I just dont understandhow can a person login and talk to some strangers without knowing their face or name or where they a re from..and you are sharing personal details on internet...on forums like here, we tell people to beware of what they are posting and sharing.....do you know that they can trace your ip and with that your home address? and rest of the details...whats wrong with women..if you have so much time on hand..why not use it for something constructive rather than creating another issue in your own marriage?
     
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    avmgs Junior IL'ite

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    dont continue this anymore.
    assuming as a friend i can tell you one thing,its not fair to discuss your personal issues with a stranger that too in the net!
    it may create tangle in your marriage life. be aware,
    dont want to intimidate you.just come out from this soon.
    hope you got it.
     
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    Pallavi4me Platinum IL'ite

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    All of them here already gave you the right suggestion

    And more than anyone you are not ok with what you are doing.. so the question doesnot arise regarding what should be your next step.. Just cut it off...

    I think there is some void you are feeling in your life may be due to any reason.. but to come out of that Internet and strangers are not solutions... Just take time to think about your real problem (that is not chatting & discussing with a stranger but the reason to do like this.. analyse yourself.. and act upon it to come out of that)

    If you have some problem (which you are not able to share with your family & friends) just write it down and analyse yourself.. and read some good stuff (books / internet) and divert your mind. .. Plan & spend some good time with your family... You will feel good & relieved..

    You may have disappointments in your life.. but sharing with unknown members wont solve the problem rather it will add up to the present woes... And as i said at first.. you know in your mind & heart what you should do now.. act with your clear conscience..........
     
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    BHARGHAVI Senior IL'ite

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    thnks for all ur suggestions
     
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    flowerlady IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear OP,
    This is a good forum for off-loading our problems. Be careful of your ID, use another name .
    It seems that you are looking for male attention and are finding it on the net. What if your DH was also doing the same with another female, would you be OK with it?
     
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