"Pain- Ofcourse you will learn to tame it" This was not the first time that it happened to me right.. I asked myself. But each and every time it happens, that pain becomes so unbearable at first and then you start coping up with that trouble, it's like your body is adjusting to bear that sudden emotional collapse. For the first time, it fell on my ego and abandon all the loved and hated faces out of my life for a week or so. After few days, when I returned back, I was still in the middle of the nuisance but it was tolerable. As a result, I went into some kind of strict principle and making rules out of my own to tame my life my way. That was the very first time when I heard the heart fell and shattered and I fell apart from myself! I can never do this again I told myself and sucked up the tears. So 3-4 years in a row and I never dare to walk in that path again.. Part of me felt empty always though. I was in the healing process I guess. And after few years when I heard that sound again..which not only broke me but left me horrified and vacant.. the pain, the days, the time all of these..froze! Froze to Infinity.... that immense sadness, emptiness, insecure feeling, each and everything curbed and hugged me so tight that with each single breath I strangled and felt miserable of living that life. This time I didn't wish to feel better but, as I thought I have overcome only when I feel more terrible. Now, what did I lost.. myself? Yes, it is too obvious, but I lost the trust and confidence too. Emotions and senses left me and I went on with my terrible life. So, how the pain is supposed to act you see, as you loose yourself free and let it engulf you slowly, you become hopeless, giddy & quiet. It is wrongly said that we should share our happiness, I strongly advise to share the pain. When We share the pain it gets less accordingly, how many times we burst out into tears and cry like hell we feel relieved. There's ain't any pain which is supposed to be with you forever and daggers you to death. There ain't any sadness to be upset forever. There is an end to every sadness, there is an end to every pain, there is an end to every misery, we just need to put an end to it. As overcoming a failure makes us successful in life same as overcoming a pain makes us strong in life!! If Something is killing you inside and you strangle to breathe.. go out and embrace some cold breeze, try to breathe, calm yourself down, talk to your people, people who really love you, they can help you they can lessen your pain. No pain can take you over!! Believe in yourself, have patience. Soon the dark cloud will vanish and you will see the clear blue sky... Pain for the Number of times I failed in my work Pain for the differentiation while growing up Pain for the heartbreaks over the years Pain for the people I lost, who are not coming back again... So you choose which pain to live with and which pain to leave behind and move on!!