Hi I am married for 3.6 years and have a 2.5 yr old son. My dh is a good person at heart. He loves me & our kid a lot.(he doesn't know how to express that). I too love him a lot. But one bad quality in him is he scolds me badly when he gets angry. He pulls my parents and would say that their brought-up(me) is not good. And says that's y i am not able to behave properly. I'm very sensitive. Many set backs for me in my personal & official life because of this. If anyone calls me loud in a anger tone, tears will roll down. Also i always wanted to balance good terms between his relatives and my relatives. Problem rises here only and he'll end up in saying that i don't know how to behave with relatives(both the sides) and that's why i am getting nose-cuts from them often. (yes it happened many times ) I dunno how to make him & others realize that i am good at heart and doesn't want to hurt anyone even in dreams. He says i am pretending to be good.Not at all. Also when he calls from office, he doesnt bother how the situation is for me either @office or @home. He wants me to pick the call and answer. If i say i'll call u later, he'll keep on asking "tell me ..what happened" and not allow me to end the call. If i forcibly do it, that's all. the whole week i'll have to hear his scoldings for each and every conversation. Friends...Can you please help me 1. to make him realize that i love him a lot and am deeply getting hurted if he scolds me for silly things? 2. Also, How can i build myself stronger mentally? (Long back i posted one query for my problems with my in-laws. Now i'm fine with them though some frictions raise now and then.) Thanks in advance dears.