Hmm i know what you mean. But if you were in my place and your innocent mum was spoken to like crap for no need then maybe you’d see how I feel. It was only when one day I put the phone on loud speaker that I realised how nasty she was being to my mum. I cooked for my in-laws for 5 months and she told my mum make sure u teach her how to cook before you move her and my son into their new house (insinuating she taught me nothing). She said my mum was obese. That she was 10 years older than her (sly dig) when she’s only 2 years older than her. Also, told my husband the same so he said she looked really old. Once she laughed mockingly when my sister in law said my mum spends so much time in the kitchen making food (yeah she puts effort in her cooking) and then on another occasion mocked my aunty saying ‘what she doing? I bet she’s still cooking in the kitchen then laughed or should I say cackled like it was the most hysterical thing. You can ignore little little things but then it’s becomes too much. Why mock someone just because your jealous? It’s been a long time I’ve seen karma on her but I’m not waiting for it. Honestly you wouldn’t believe me but if u saw her you’d be shocked someone like her exists. I have cried day and night when I was newly married because my innocent parents didn’t deserve that nastiness and neither did I. I suffered 2 years from post natal depression and my in-laws and husband were a large part of the problem.