Hi, I have been married for last 5 years and these years I have learnt that me and MIL think ways apart. We rarely agree to a common point. She gives fake reasons, facts n figures to prove her points but I do not agree from within what my mind says i agree to that. Being an elder of family she thinks she should have last words in every discussion n being an capricorn i dont want to give up my instinct. Staying apart is not an solution. Please suggest some positive ways to handle her negativity. e.g. when is says something that i know is bluff- what should I do? She creates scene out of nil and then emotionally blackmails that i give her tension and being a sugar patient tension is poison for her. I know few things can not be changed and changing anyone else is waste of time. I want to focus on myself and keep myself motivated to move ahead. These useless talks should not affect me. Thanks in advance.