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Gift for mother in law.

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by sslkgpaa, Feb 4, 2015.

  1. AprilLisa

    AprilLisa Gold IL'ite

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    Why don't you buy a saree for her maid instead this time..thinkingsmiley...will cost you less...and then give it to your MIL for her B'Day gift :birthday.....

    Anyways, she is going to give it to her maid only...so why spend more? your Hubby will be happy that you sent her something...and MIL will be happy(by being able to demean you again) when again she gives the saree to her maid in front of you.......and you will be happy too, as you did not have to spend too much money for someone who doesn't know how to appreciate....and secretly you know what has actually happened.
     
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  2. liberatedpearl

    liberatedpearl Senior IL'ite

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    Yeah.... typical problem. googlesmiley
    I am so stupid that till date I try to match her expectation and terribly fail. It’s been 10 years now… yes yes… you can laugh on me! :biglaugh But my intentions were to make her happy at any cost… which IS impossible.

    So this time onwards, I have also decided that I am going to gift her Gift Vouchers or Cash Card. Simple and Easy way out!! :Bow:
     
  3. Keet

    Keet Silver IL'ite

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    Hope MIL gives this one also to the maid.


     
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  4. Twinkel

    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    ;-) .
     
  5. sslkgpaa

    sslkgpaa Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks all for your suggestions/comments. Even I feel gold is the best gift. But wondering is it trustworthy to buy gold online and get that shipped? Any websites?
     
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    Lathasv IL Hall of Fame

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    @sslkgpa
    in my opinion
    don't buy any gold ornament if she does't like what you do? Buy any gold coin and send it to her.whatever she wants to do with that coin she can do..
     
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  7. Laks09

    Laks09 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    laugh1smileylaugh1smileylaugh1smileylaugh1smileyEating lunch and almost chocked.
     
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  8. guesshoo

    guesshoo IL Hall of Fame

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    And gave a silk saree you gifted?????? Not to her daughter or even back to you but to the maid? in that case, a simple bouquet with a happy birthday card will do
     
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    nb25 Gold IL'ite

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    It is your decision, OP, but I feel gifting gold/cash is rewarding her bad behavior.
     
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    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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