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Flirting Or Cheating

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by lakshya2018, Feb 11, 2019.

  1. Topaz49

    Topaz49 Silver IL'ite

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    This is IL Gallant's post from another thread.
    Two important things:

    1. There is no problem in this world that can't be talked and resolved.
    (Topaz49: You have the password, don't get tempted to snoop. Don't develop suspicion as it leads to mistrust. Open and honest communication is the best in the long run.)

    2. There is no mistake in this world that can't be forgiven.

    If a husband and wife understand the true meaning of this, then married life will be happy.
    If either one does not understand this, then always there is a problem.
     
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  2. Sunshine04

    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    Dont talk to him about this woman.
    Because if there is something going on between them, he will get alert.
    Be normal with him like usual.
    Check his chats daily.
     
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  3. lakshya2018

    lakshya2018 Bronze IL'ite

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    Thank you so much for all your valuable comments.

    I started talking with him casually. He started to worry when i was angry. So for time sake I warned and forgave him.
     
  4. senorita2019

    senorita2019 Silver IL'ite

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    Looks like casual friend or some crush

    Dont fret but get him to respond to u if its important to you
     
  5. Topaz49

    Topaz49 Silver IL'ite

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    You can't be objective when you communicate with anger.
    Forgive because he chatted or flirted or cheated ?
     
  6. SinghManisha

    SinghManisha Finest Post Winner

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    Nip this in the bud. There is no reason a married male should ask another woman to change her DP. Please let your husband know that this is unacceptable and hurtful .
     
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  7. shravs3

    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    So true.Unless and until the other person is sister or may be a very close friend??
     
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  8. lakshya2018

    lakshya2018 Bronze IL'ite

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    No she is not close friend. he knows her just few months ago.
     
  9. lakshya2018

    lakshya2018 Bronze IL'ite

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    Yes. thanks for your advise.
     
  10. lakshya2018

    lakshya2018 Bronze IL'ite

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    Dont what to push him directly now. If i pressurize him so much he may delete the chats and become alert(if he s cheating)
     
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