flirting married woman

Wow...Have seen and heard about flirting husbands. This is the first time I'm hearing about a wife and this does not sound very good. Does her husband know what she is doing? If she is doing it so openly, he must have noticed.

I'll say ignore her. I am sure the guys too must be aware of this and let your respective husbands know that they should also probably not treat her any different. That is all you could do Chubu.

Not inviting them would be a better idea if you wanted to avoid a person like her. But since you have, just make sure everyone knows not to encourage her behaviour.

 

Hi Chubu,
You said she´s a friend of yours.
Didn´t You speak with herself and tells her that You don´t like her behavior and that she have to change it, ´cause it will influence Your friendship?
I mean, a married friend who´s flirting is one thing (and it ain´t nice!) but an other thing is that she´s flirting with YOUR DH.
Definitively a no-go!
Please get it right. I don´t support her behavior and I´m wondering too if her hubby doesn´t notice this?

But just ignore her... I guess it´s important to draw her a line.

Just my 2 cent .

 

Why did her male friends misbehave with her? And what does it have to do with what she is doing now?
If its cos of her flirting, you might as well let her know that...That is if she hasn't figured it out for herself yet.
Otherwise too, if you trust your husband, I'd say ignore her.

 

chubu these kind of female wants to be centre of attraction and only actions to impress men and women .... just ignore her and tell other friends not to notice and also their respective husbands abt her bitching ... so they will get the picture if they misbehave she will make it public with others so they will also stay away soon she will get the radar message from everyone

 

hi Chubu

I think you should talk to your friend and ask her to behave like a married woman. She is your friend so as a friend its your duty to confront her. Even if she does not listen, then atleast you will have the satisfaction that you tried.

You are being a good friend, inviting her to pot lucks and to your family get togethers, thats sweet of you but you need to tell her honestly. If possible tell her husband about the way she behaves so that he can also talk to her.

 

She perhaps has low self-esteem. Draw attention to her good points and praise her for them openly. And ignore her flirtatious nature. Just work this out with your other friends. She will most certainly change soon enough.

Nandita

 

Dear OP,
Your friend seems to be a frustrated woman out for attention of the opposite sex. If possible cut off all contact with her as she is a potential danger.
Even married men like attention from other females , she can try to impress or hook up with some other man.
Tell her to join a gym, she will spend her extra energy , meet some other people and stop staring at your husband!
Her DH must be knowing about her nature but is keeping quiet in public. Maybe they talk/fight about it at home.
Hope she is not into wearing provocative clothes, another red flag.
Drop her like a hot potato.Its not your responsibility to reform her.